I have been sexually active for over a year. I know what I like (and so does my partner) and it feels good but I can't seem to have an orgasm. He keeps telling me "you'll know...you'll know." I am 20 years old and I feel kind of embarssed about it. I just feels really good and then I cant take it any more because I feel the need to urinate. Any advice..how will I know when I am having one?
2006-08-22 20:12:08 · 8 answers · asked by Janie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're seconds away. That urge to urinate is a huge orgasm on it's way. Relax and let loose. Even if there's fluid, I guarantee it's not pee. Throw down a towel if it will make you more comfortable. It feels like you need to pee, then you cross the line and it's pure pleasure.
2006-08-22 20:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you are in the right track. Only advice I'll give you is not to think TOO much about urinating. Just go with the flow and see what happens?? You will find out for yourself it is not that you'll urinate, but you will feel a wonderful feeling you will feel without Guilt.
When will the feel of GUILT go away from the act of love, pleasure, and lust???
2006-08-22 20:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by DragonHeart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off some believe that if a guy can get a female to urinate during sex that she had the best orgasm ever. Second you need to relax and not think about orgasming. If you are tense you are never going to do it. Unfortunately for females it is part mental. Third try to masturbate and get yourself to orgasm or just have some forplay with your bf. Orgasming during sex is harder for a female than a male and toys do help anything that vibrates on the clitoris.
2006-08-22 20:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have a feeling of overflowing the tension that you will be building up during sex with a sudden feeling of having fits of joy when in culmination and at the flow of that feeling you'll have a feeling of fulfillment and the release of the tension you built up. If you are not satisfied after your sex, go and urinate if you want and try this. Lie flat and ask your partner to masturbate your clitoris until you get your orgasm.
2006-08-22 20:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by john j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a very unccommon feeling. Let youself go a little further and you will have intense pleasure.
2006-08-22 20:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Urinate before u do it
2006-08-22 20:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by AmbY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur probably really sensitive
ur probably getting an orgasm and u dont even know it
2006-08-22 20:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by carinat777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask a doctor
2006-08-22 20:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋