the love of my life has just left me, and i cant live, i am thinking of buying a guy tommarow. It just hurts too much.
2006-08-22 19:36:18 · 26 answers · asked by Luis G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you value someone else more than yourself. That was probably your mistake all along. Learn to value yourself more than others, or you will never enter into an equal partnership with anyone. Take it as a lesson and move on.
2006-08-22 19:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by greeneyedprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down budz, calm down. I wish you had of mentioned your age, and how long you had been together. Sure love hurts especially when you break up with someone you thought would be perfect for you and could be your soul mate. Before I go any further I would like to point out the typing error you made....buying a guy, I presume you meant gun. Shiver me timbers dude that would be a nasty way to go. Come on now, no girl is worth blowing your brains out, ending your life. She may want you back some day, so give it some time. Now repeat after me, I am too young to die. I have a life and I am going to live it. Life is worth living. If she doesnt come back to you. You have to move on with your life, dont worry you will meet someone else. So take it easy, relax. This sort of thing happens to everyone and if everyone ended their life over it, the world would be pretty empty. Good luck budz. chin up, think and carry on dude. Hugs to ya. By the way are you a male or female, by your name I presume you are a male, Luis also spelt Lewis, hmmmm am I right.
2006-08-23 03:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a GUY... and you can buy me "tommarow" for $19.95 plus tax. But wait! That's not all you get! If you act right now I'll even through in my cousin Pervis...he's a hardworking pig farmer from West Virginia...but wait...that's not ALL you get... the first 100 respondents to this ad will get a lifetime membership to the 4nik8er/Pervis family reunions. If you think you hurt now...you ain't never been to one of our reunions...
2006-08-23 02:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by 4nik8er 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buying a guy...what the hell does that mean...if your already talking about being with someone else...did you really love this person ...or were you just in love with the fantasy of love..ask yourself that...and take one day at a time..time will heal all broken and confuse hearts...good luck
2006-08-23 02:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wrong! Your heart is broken, but yes you can live, you have to live, this is what life is about, love and heartache and love again. Talk to your friends or get some help from a counselor, life is too precious, even when it sucks.
2006-08-23 02:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me, please. I am a psych nurse and do some counseling. No one person is worth anothers life. I know you are hurting, but if you take your life how will you finish the job you were put here to do. How will you meet your life mate and have the children you are suppose to have? Please Please Please, this is a learning thing and you will learn much from it, like slamming your fingers in the car door, the 1st wk or 2 it really hurts. then every week it hurts less and in time you will be able to say it was a bad experience but life goes on. Please write and ask for encouragement, but do not keep the gun in ahouse with you. Our prayers are with you that you will gather up strength
2006-08-23 02:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time. Let it heal for a while. The same thing happened to me, and I thought I'd never be happy again. But after several months, it's starting to heal, and I'm much better than I was. Believe me, I thought it impossible that I would ever feel any better, but it is true that time heals all wounds.
2006-08-23 02:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r inwardly sure that there was no dirth of dedication frm ur side+u have tried ur level best to sort it out with him just remember u just made a bad investment of ur dedication.
Chill buddy, u deserve a better person & maybe he is just round the corner.All the best.
2006-08-23 02:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by nsanjoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"love may leave your heart like shattered glass,
but keep in mind that there's someone who'll be
willing to endure the pain of picking up the pieces so
you could be whole again".. you just have to learn how to let go..
Letting go is not just setting the other person free but it is also setting yourself free from bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart. Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it.
say this line:
"When i lost you, i was the one who loves you most, but between us you lost more. For someday I can love someone the way that I loved you but you will never be loved again the way that i did"..
it works for me
2006-08-23 03:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jeunesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon,
I know that you are hurting really bad right now but I promise you that it gets better. I think that most of us have had our heart broken at one point or another but the heart does heal itself. Be patient and allow "time" to do its job.
2006-08-23 02:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by baby_flyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋