Hi, my boyfriend has changed lately although he is sweet, i think he lied to me about something and i dont want him to, i want him to be honest what is the best way to have an honest conversation with him?
2006-08-22 19:14:14 · 11 answers · asked by hawai_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with him, tell him you feel like he has changed and you don't know why and you don't like it. Let him know you feel like he has lied to you about something and that you would not like for those type of games to play a part in your relationship because you are serious about him and want the two of you to take the relationship seriously and respect one another. Give him the opportunity to open up about what is going on inside without blowing things out of proportion. Make him understand that you want to get the situation talked about and resolved so that you can move forward in the relationship instead of apart.
2006-08-22 19:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by soul child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is have an honest conversation with him. Tell him that if expects the whole truth from you that you expect the same. from him. No good relationship can be built on lies. If he wants to lie to you, you come up with some real whoppers that really make him think about his lies or if he wants and desires honesty from you, you should be getting should getting the same from him. If he continues to lie to you. Think twice if you want to live your life like that. Sherry11
2006-08-23 02:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a toughie...
At the beginning of a relationship, men tend to "impress" the women, and once they know they've got them, they slack off. They stop taking you to dinner everynight, sending you flowers every week...but they're still the same person. If you're sure it's not just this, then talk to him. Tell him how you feel and why you feel that way. If he's a good catch, he'll discuss it with you.
2006-08-23 02:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by texasbabe19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omq i no how you feel my ex boyfriend i mean i was in love wihtth him and he lied to me adn cheated on me so many times but i always tok him back just tell him you dont wanan qet hurt andif you are qoint o be in a realtionship with him that you want a honest one no hidinq ne thinq from one another
2006-08-23 02:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by beLla Raqazza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him on a non-emotional level... dont talk down to him and just tell him how YOU feel...address your problem and ask him about it, dont make a scene out of it and get mad and start saying "you you you" guys dont like feeling attacked...be serious without getting upset
and do it alone when youre both in good moods
2006-08-23 02:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by carrie g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess what boys always lies to their girlfriends so don't worry about him lying i bet he'll open up to him sometimes and don't keep nagging him to tell u whats wrong u should just keep ur mind off if hes lying...
2006-08-23 02:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget getting the truth out of him. He'll come around or he never will.
2006-08-23 02:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM THAT YOU WANT TO HAVE A DEEP HONEST CONVERSATION WITH HIM AND TRY TO SORT THIS ISSUE OUT. IF HE DOESN'T WELL THEN YOU SHOULDN'T WASTE YOUR TIME WITH HIM!!
2006-08-23 02:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by pqr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YAR!!!, make the scurvy dog walk the plank!!!
2006-08-23 02:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by tmdkshaft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate..share...tell him how you feel
2006-08-23 02:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋