I've known this girl for more than a year and all we say is hi and bye to each other because were shy around each other. i think i really like her what should i do. i mean we hardly talk but i really want her.
2006-08-22 19:09:16 · 16 answers · asked by j g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yea im 19 and shes the same age
2006-08-22 19:09:49 · update #1
how can i tell if she's intersted in me in the first place without having to ask her. girls, how do you usually show a guy you're interested? body language or any hints?
2006-08-22 19:14:26 · update #2
if your both shy, and it's been a year, when you finally do talk to her, it will be a years worth of nervousness, I can just imagine, you practicing what your gonna say to her for days, working yourself up. It sounds tortourous. Here is a better idea, send her flowers with a card that says, I would really like to get to know you better, call me. sign it, don't forget your number. If she doesn't call you,then you just saved yourself some pain, but women love flowers, she'll call you for sure.
2006-08-22 19:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by old & decreped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some time offer to buy her a soft drink. While you are both refreshing yourselves see if you can find something to talk about.
Weather is always a good start. Classes might be another. Chances are she'll be glad to talk to you and just see where chemistry takes you.
Don't expect too much but don't sell yourselves short either.
Shyness is sweet.
Wish I could go back to being shy.
2006-08-23 02:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking her something bout her...her interests, find something in common to make a conversation about...
if this is at school, talk to her bout school stuff if youre unsure, or same thing if you work with her...that never fails...just gotta strike up a conversation
and dont be scared, im sure shes interested too
2006-08-23 02:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by carrie g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe ask her if she wants to hang out... You don't want to lay it on to strong that ur feelin her... So ask her out to movie or dinner etc... And see where it goes from there... Oh and be urself... And it doesn't turn out the way u wanted then it wasn't mean to work out but have fun and just go wit it...
Good Luck
2006-08-23 02:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look mate thier is only one thing you can do talk to her if things hit of take her out for a date if all goes well keep at it and then it will all be right
2006-08-23 02:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think there's a problem... some women are shy because they like you.. so be the first to say "hey, i'm .... do you want to grab a bite?" or whatever.. ask her out.. maybe she's just waiting for you to ask her
2006-08-23 02:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her say your name (if she doesn't already know it that is), and start up a conversation. Please don't just go up to her and automatically ask if she had a boyfriend. At least as me and most of my friends are concerned, its a definite minus on the point system.
2006-08-23 02:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by Nixxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up ur not in high school no more, ask her out get some balls, talk about something you might know she might have in common blah blah blah, whats the worse that can happen? she says YEEEEWWWW! so what
2006-08-23 02:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by AL E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you should start talking to her. find a way to start a conversation. if you're feeling more comfortable with her, may be you can ask her out, get to know her better. good luck.
2006-08-23 02:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by chenelynmae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try small talk..and it will grow into something big
like not just hi next time try hey whats up and she replies bring other stuff up relating the topic
2006-08-23 02:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by brazilianbeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋