Well my cousin who's only about 11 years old as seen me fully nude while i was changing...she walked right into my room without knocking..i'm not sure if she was shocked or not or if she liked what she seen...it's disturbing to me but this happened once more not to long ago where she walked in on me again, except this time i was changing but i was also a little erect, and she had seen me...what should I do? Should I talk to her about it, or just let it go? I'm not sure if she had done it on purpose or if it was an accident...but she did walk in and i seen her eyes roll from the top down and she kept on looking until i told her to get out and knock on the door next time.
2006-08-22 18:58:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I;d just let it go. I'm sure she's just as embarrassed as you. Plus as creepy as it is that she walked in on you, it may be even creepier for you to bring it up.
And at that young of an age, her wondering eyes were probably more so from shock then anything else. Hmm..maybe some curiousity.
Just keep the door locked and you should be good.
2006-08-22 19:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nixxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you are a guy.
Don't worry about it.
She shouldn't enter your room without knocking and you may want to find a more private place to change.
Assume it was an accident and move on. Consider it a part of her education. By the way, at 11 she probably has achieved puberty. She most likely didn't see anything she didn't already know about.
If she does it again have a chat with her mom.
2006-08-22 19:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- 11 yrs old for a girl is not " too young " in these days , as some comments said . I don't think that girls on this age r "innocents" , like kids 200 yrs ago ! .
2- it's not the first time .
3- since she "kept on looking until ..." , that mean it was intended .may be motivated by meer curiousity to see something "unuasual" , or she was "excited" . she's not too young for not to know that it's bad behaviour coming in rooms without knocking. u should talk to her seriously , not to do it again .
2006-08-22 19:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by yousif y 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
theres no problem with that, she is old enough to learn she should knock first. And seeing you naked is ok as long as you dont let her see you on purpose. She should know she has to knock first, and seeing another person naked is unusual and maybe a little embarrassing but nothing to be traumatized about.
2006-08-22 19:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Joyce R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you don't have locks on your door, or you would be locking the door when changing.
It sounds like you handled it well by telling her to get out and to knock on the door. If she does it again, as soon as you hear the door opening, yell, "Hey! I'm changing!"
If she continues, inform an adult.
2006-08-22 19:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 11 years old and is probably just curious. At her age I wouldn't be disgusted by this. If you are close to her maybe just talk to her but It could embarrass her. Really I think she will stop this as she has seen all your bits now.
2006-08-22 19:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have did it right. Now it is her turn to forget this incidence as it is hard to but she has to.
You are telling her to knoch the door next time... but I suggest you to lock the door next time you change. As you seems more mature than her.
Also she might have enjoyed watching you as in this tender age kids want to explore.. so let her not do it again as it will harm her mind.
2006-08-22 19:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by heart_intelligence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything until she does it again and make sure you tell her that you dont appreciate her barging in on you. You might want to invest in a lock. She's probably just being curious but still I would be uncomfortable about it.
2006-08-22 19:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Lonesome Dove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 13:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.................I would start locking the door my friend! Also let her know its an invasion of privacy. In today's world most people don't have the proper skills of etiquette as it used to be like. You might explain this to her and tell her not to do it again!
2006-08-22 19:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋