Should I Suicide?

Question

Can anyone help? I am thinking about taking my life. I keep getting sad, I don't have any friends or really anyone to talk to. I am very lonely and well, i guess my main problem is that I can't get a women and no one loves me, at least that is how I feel. I lost my job a little while back and now I almost never leave the house because I never have a reason to. I have been living off my savings since I got fired and when my money is gone I don't think I am going to get a new job, but I think I am just going to give up on my life. Is there anything I can do to get someone to love me? What can I do to have a life again? What should I do? Please Help!

I have no friends what so ever, zero! so who is there going to be left to hurt?

Answer 1

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If this was real, and you were not just seeking attention, you wouldn't be here on this site saying oh poor me, look at me, pay attention to me, no one love me, oh i wish I could die.

Getover yourself. Stop being stupid.

And do you reallt think these people on this site give a darn about you. Nope.

Stop playing around with what is a realy issue and just trying to get attenetion. If you were really thinking of doing it, you would be dead by now! Faker

Look people, we have these nuts come in claiming this that and the other and you get all involved and trusting when 9 out of 10 times their story is just a big fat lie!! Look at how the though process works for one who wants to end their life. Do they seek out support on a dumb web site that you can find an answer for how to unstuff you toilet from the q tips your kid put in there? No. I don't think so. He just wants to cause a stir, a spark and get some attention and focus on him!

Answer 2

When you get sick you go to the doctor. And right now you are very sick and you need to go to a doctor and get help. You are suffering from a bad case of life and depression. When one bad thing leads to another you can be pulled into a big black hole. As horrible as you feel right now, you do not have to continue to feel this way. You have a lot of people that care about you and you would be hurting them very much if you took your own life. I think somewhere in your head that you know that you are loved and valued, but these feelings have been buried very deep and forgotten. You really need to see a counselor as soon as possible. Talking to a professional will help you to uncover the truth - that you are a very unique, valuable and special person. It is pretty easy to be depressed when you are so isolated. A do have a suggestion that might help - but it will demand a bit of commitment from you. There are hundreds of dogs that are put to death because there is no one to care for them. If you could find it in your heart to adopt a dog you would be saving the dogs life. To get out of your house, you could enroll in puppy and obedience classes for you and your new dog and you could get out of the house a couple of times a day to walk and play with your dog.
There is nothing more attractive to a girl then a pet lovin man. Sometimes when you are not looking for love, it finds you. Of course, the best way to find someone to love you is to be a loving person.
Losing a job is very hard on a person's ego and self esteem -but it doesn't mean that you are a bad person. There are a lot of reasons that people lose jobs - I've even had to be a witness when an employee was fired recently. It was very hard - but this person was not in the right job for him - he is much more talented than the job required and I hope that he will now have a chance to get a much better job. I hope that you are also able to get something much better that lets you use your talents.

Answer 3

I'm sorry. I think I understand how you feel because I have been really down on my luck in my life too and there are also many others who have as well. Please don't give up. You are meant to be a part of this world and even though you have not found a significant other yet it doesn't mean you never will. You never know what tomorrow will hold and if you leave you now you'll never find out. Besides that, who's to say your life will be better dead. That is another unknown destination. Could be nice or it could really make you regret what you have done. I personally would like to know naturally and not by my own demise.

Answer 4

First off stop being a damn panzy. O boo hoo i lost my job and no one loves me. My great grandfather came to this country from Italy when he was 15 years old with nothing but 15 dollars. And he came all alone. He died a wealthy man owning 3 buildings in new york leaving behind a huge loving family.

So get a damn job. If you cant how about the military, nearly impossible to go threw the military without making friends. You can join the navy or air force or **** eve parts of the army any you would never see combat.

If your to old or that's just not your thing, than do something on the smaller scale, like go to a bar, hang out. Go at the same time on the same days and you will make friends.

Answer 5

My advice is to make a dramatic change in your life.
It's clear the way you're living now isn't working as well as you'd hoped so it's time to change something or everything.
If you really feel that close to the edge I'd suggest rearranging everything in your life. Be a whole new person, change your lifestyle, move to another city if you have to. Whatever it takes to make you happy.
What I'm suggesting would be a lot harder than killing yourself. It wouldn't be easy, but nothing ever is.
When I'm down or when I'm in situations where I end up feeling the same as you I always find this quote helps me out:
"It's only when you've lost everything that you're free to do anything"
Good luck!

Answer 6

Dont do it. Just hang on a little while longer. I've contemplated it a few months ago. There will be an intervention, and God will be the one to take charge of it. Humans are capable of doing so much. More than any of us can even imagine. He has a plan for you if you just be patient with him. Your not his only son. Just hang in there.

THE FIRST THING YOU NEED TO DO IS SEEK OUT A WELLNESS CENTER. Thats what I did. They are very helpful when it comes to listening. In actuality, thats all that depressed ones need the majority of the time. Just someone to listen for a while. After we get all of the stresses off of our chest, we are able to use "Substantial thinking" to get us back on our feet so that we can go back to who we really are.

Dont forget, LIFE IS HERE TO EXCITE YOU, NOT DEPRESS YOU OR DRAG YOU DOWN. Visit you local wellness center, and they'll help you sort out a few problems so that you can figure out what steps to take next. Everythings gonna be ok, just hang in there a little longer. Gudluk!!

Answer 7

Okay, here's a question that gets me right in the heart, and although i'm only 14, i've been through a lot myself and understand your thoughts. I've commited over six times but i am now recieving help.
First off let me say that i auffer from manic deprression (also known as being bipolar) . Having a girlfriend isn't anything in life. And eventually, there is that special someone that will see and love you for who you are (even though you may seem like its impossible) and you're somewhat putting too much stress on yourself to find a girlfriend or to get that first kiss. i myself have never experienced the joys of a girl, but have been able to put that aside, and try to concentrate on other aspects of life and not stress out on girls in general. My mom treated me badly as a child, and my father was abusiveand i failed every class, got mixed up in major serious drugs...been to the hospital for suicide attempts...self mutilation... but trust me on this one. Don'tdo it , you have so much more to live for. I did not have my childhood years, and well i'm in my teens now, and haven't gotten a girlfriend, been shot down by my peers and those who i care about. But you know what, these aren't the people you want to be with. And although you may not have many friends, stick close to the people who will support you and make you feel good about yourself, build up your self esteem, and get out in the world, see whats out there. Meet some new people, and be confident. Confidence will help you succeed socially...financially, everything. I know that right now you are feeling hopeless, knowing that you will never get your teenage and childhood years back, but think of it as a learning experience. This is another steep hill you have in your life, and once you climb over it, you'll see the light. If you ever need any one to talk to, please email me at [e-mail]. I do not want you to die. Even though you may see it as your only option. Speaking out and admitting your situation is your first step to healing. Dude, look into career oppurtunities, jin some clubs, get out and enjoy your hobbies, an hang around people you can relate to. This is your group, your click, your support. And once you find someone you can talk to, and let them in on your secrets, and problems...you may be able to heal. Suicide, while it may seem like a last resort to end the pain, is not the right option. I do not want anyone of any age to go through the pain i have gone through. and i'm speakin from the heart. See a counselor if you have to, but please do not commit to this option..

Answer 8

Oh god please don't do it. I know that life deals some hard blows but honestly there are other answers I know I've been there. I did it and died many times, before I realized that there was other ways to be happy. I don't know your likes and dislikes but search deep within yourself and find what you want really bad. look at yourself in the mirror and see what changes you can make and then set out to do just that. Find something that you really enjoy and do it when u r feeling sad. When u finally find peace within yourself that right person will walk into your life. But people stay away from really sad people. Good Luck hon Grandma Rosey

Answer 9

Maybe instead of living off your saving you should geta job and get out right now. There is life without women and there's life in meeting them too. But first thing is first. SMile. No frowning or feeling sorry for your self. We don't like that. Let women know you are confident and if you are working, that's a plus. No woman wants to date a man who is not working or not planning on it. Life is great man!! Breath in. Breath out. LIve

Answer 10

do u want to be religious? believing in god will help, because it gives u purpose...god loves u and wants u to help him take care of this world. god will always be with u and help u find ur way as long as u "knock"....(seek and ye shall find...)

if u don't want to be religious...life will occasionally seem meaningless and empty...u just can't let that get u down. set some goals in ur life...think of something that really bothers u and try to change it. example- right now...u want someone to care about u, right? u can't expect someone to just do that for u...it starts by u taking care of urself...u must try to love/appreciate urself. right now u may not feel so great...but u got to do things to empower u...like go back out there and seek out a new job. don't focus on how u feel and ur past failures/mistakes...just go out there and do it! maybe get a different type of job. it takes a minimum of 4 years to make big changes in ur life...accept that and start over by finding a new job. why get a job? to see other people...gives u a chance to help others...all of these things will help u get going. plus u will need money to start improving urself...after finding a job...start taking classes in karate or painting or ballroom dancing...just something that u can develop a talent. also go to the self-improvement section at bookstores...they can give u lots of ideas of how to see ur life differently and maybe some direction...or at the very least help u understand urself and ur situation better.

do u know rem's song "everybody hurts"? if not, check it out...maybe it'll help. sometimes a good song can help motivate me too. especially an upbeat song...like dance songs. if u aren't a music person...maybe go to an art museum...seeing all of those beautiful paintings...the time, effort, and patience that went into all of them may inspire u to try to create and be productive.

don't give up...keep on going!! there's so many people in this world who could use ur help.

Answer 11

No. Suicide is not the answer. Things will turn around...sometimes it just takes time and someone to talk to. Life is hard. Reach out to a health care professional it may feel hard to do but it they can offer a sympathetic ear and maybe some advice.