Im really crushing on a guy I work with. It is very strange because he is so not my type, but I think about him day and night! I havent felt like this since high school. We work graveyard shift and are alone most nights. Could it be for real or maybe just the fact that we spend so much time together?
2006-08-22 18:49:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so let me elaborate, yes I work with other men alot of other men and most are much more handsome than he but I really feeling his personality, everytime we look at eachother we lock eyes and I get that chill thing (girls u know what I mean) and even when Im really upset he just brings the biggest smile to my face!
2006-08-22 20:15:47 · update #1
Girl you sound just like me. I have fallen for 3 guys I have worked with over the course of my life, each one would never have made my head turn otherwise. But I got to know them and their personalities and realized how amazing they were. I never went out with any of them, one of them asked me out, and all of them flirted like crazy. (one I work with now :) ) but, I suggest you tell him your feelings, and don't regret it later, as I do. Good luck and God bless!! :)
2006-08-22 18:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably has something to do with seeing him everyday and being bored at work. Of course that doesn't necessarily mean that it is not a real crush. However, since you work together I would be very careful about acting on it. Some companies have rules about that. Even if they don't, you would still have to see him everyday if things didn't work out and that could be very awkward.
2006-08-23 01:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by Erin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you spend a lot of time with someone, day in and day out feelings do rise. Maybe you think he is not your type, but how do you know for sure. If he is intersted in you then maybe you can go out on a couple of dates and see how it feels to spend time with each other out of work.
2006-08-23 01:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Farah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is the first time then i think it is because it is the first time you are spending much time with a guy. if he is not your type then i do not think you really love him.. just be careful not to tell him anything about your feelings until you get over this feeling, but if you really feel like you love him then you can tell him.. but now be aware
2006-08-23 01:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by reemalreef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about one thing. Take yourself out of your current situation. If you just met this guy in a mall, will you fall for it ?
If there are many other guys working along with you and him, will you really pick him ?
2006-08-23 01:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Just_curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an old adage my father once taught me don't mix pleasure/sex with business and trust me this is one good piece of advice which never got things too complicated for me at work...
2006-08-23 01:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-23 01:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Whattup Doc? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...talk to him and see if your point of view changes.
Might just be infactuation though. :)
2006-08-23 01:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know try it out and see. where at in veags i live here if its someplace dead could be love could be just sex or bordem never know till you try.
2006-08-23 01:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋