I had a turbulent 1 year relationship with this guy and this year because of his obnoxious behaviour,I couldn't take it anymore and called it quits.In less than 2 months,I got involved in a rebound relationship but was happy until I saw my ex again.We bumped into each other (where the both of us were with our respective new partners) and the feelings came back.Not long after, I broke off with the new guy (actually he dumped me because of my obsession with my ex).My ex started contacting me again, messing up my mind and I started to get crazy over him all over again.I suggested a reconcilation.He didn't refuse but he wouldn't break off with the new woman.I tried time and again to leave him but he tried to beg me to go back to him.I couldn't let go, honestly, and he told me he couldn't either(according to him, the truth I don't know).We have been inofficially together for over 1month now(he stillgives priority to the woman and only sees me when she's not around)I'm hurting.Am I stupid?
2006-08-22 18:45:22 · 10 answers · asked by BunnyBunz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*Sigh* This is the problem we women have....
I think maybe you should be happy with yourself.
And if you're happy with yourself you'll get the confidence to love yourself.
If you love yourself more than you love this guy, you wouldn't let yourself go through this.
Love yourself more.
He isn't giving you the top spot as a woman in his life.
Is that what you really want?
And If it isn't, the way to fix that is not to try and chage him, the solution is getting rid of whatever is making you have this bad feeling.
You cannot expect him to change.
Not because he won't, just because you cant expect anything from anyone but yourself.
2006-08-22 19:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of men dream of having two women. Don't let him get away with that. It's not fair to either woman! Cut the ties because if he will cheat with you, he will cheat on you. This guy isn't worth much in the partner category. Lose him before you lose you.
2006-08-23 01:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by love2utam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is 7up? Why are you being a fool for him? It's over,accept it and move on with your life.And stop hanging out in the same places that he does. If your going to be a fool,be a fool for yourself,not that jerk.
2006-08-23 01:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but yes you're stupid. If the relationship was turbulent, you should've been glad it ended. You need to have zero contact with him if you're able to get away from this disfunctional behavior.
2006-08-23 01:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get some self esteem. Get a new love. Kick him to the curb. NOW!!!
You deserve to be treated better. Why do you allow a man to treat you second best?
2006-08-23 01:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hate to say it but he won't leave the other girl because he is more compatible with her. He's only using you for sex.
2006-08-23 01:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey forget bout him i no its hard theres plenty more fish in the sea really there is
2006-08-23 01:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by jamie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get no with your life it maybe vary hard to do but i see no room for you
2006-08-23 01:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how stupid are you. get over him and yourself. you are a booty call and door mat.
2006-08-23 01:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he's using u
2006-08-23 01:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by sweetangel20_04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋