i asked this question previously- in a nutshell i am a 39 year old physician that is sleeping with a 23 year old married nurse, for about 2 weeks now. I received the feedback answers before, but i need new advise. she has been great and i am really enjoying time with her, not only sex. she has a daughter that i want to meet. this nurse is gorgeous, blonde hair, blue eyes, looks like a playboy model. she was homecoming queen a few years back. i never had a girl that is this hot and like her, i want her, am i still doing the wrong thing....
2006-08-22 18:31:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Id have to say yes, it is still the wrong thing. Sure, she may be beautiful, and seem perfect to you, but the fact is, she is married. And even if she did leave her husband for you...5 years down the road, you will be the one she is leaving. There are more women out there, even women like her. Everyone deserves happiness...why do you feel you dont? For being with a married woman is affecting your chances of forever being happy.
2006-08-22 18:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by BeckyKay 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am chosing not to take the moral high-road as some of the other posters have done.
Do you really love this woman?
Have you really addressed why she has decided to be with you? Could it be that she has been seeking a "more lucretive" relationship by pursuing a "doctor"?
It is a statement about her moral character that she would be messing around on her husband. Do you think she can be faithful to you?
The most distressing thing about this post is that you have not mentioned anything about her "spirit", her kind heart, her generous nature, or her guilt about living this double life. You just made comments about what she looks like.
I would implore you to think twice about involving a child in this "relationship" unless you are going to marry her. Which you didn't say anything about making this arrangement permanent.
I say find someone else to do. I know that you think you are having a good time but it seems really shallow.
2006-08-25 08:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by goldenlifev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you're doing is wrong. You are a skanky home-wrecker. Why do you want to meet this woman's daughter, when you are trying to ruin her life? Have you thought about anybody but yourself during this whole affair? Also you are party to an oath-breaking, have you thought about that? Oath-breaking is a serious thing and has serious repercussions. Also, have you thought about the husband involved in this affair? Do you want to meet him as well, since you're trying to ruin his life too? Dude, there are so many things wrong with this situation. I hope I don't live anywhere near you, because when your karma comes back around, it's going to be ugly.
2006-08-22 18:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice catch. Let me play Devils advocate.
I say keep throwin the hump into her and forget trying to meet her daughter. How the heck can that work?
"Honey, this is the man mommy's been f%&king behind your daddies back"
In case you didn't know. Little girls often look up to their dads "Daddies little girl" So if she finds out then Daddy finds out, and two medical personnel are shot in a muder suicide lovers triangle type thing. Happens all the time, just watch the news.
Now if Daddy is gettin it from some other chick himself then things could be different.
2006-08-22 18:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So glad that YOU are NOT my doctor. And how did you make it through medical school with mistakes like "advise?" It's "advice." You sound as though your ego needs some hot number to make you feel like you are somebody. The nurse is married, bub, and that makes it WRONG, but then, you already know this so why you are asking again is beyond me! You don't seem terribly bright if youd idn't unerstand the first repsonses that told you this is WRONG!
2006-08-22 20:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, Maybe your her Bigger, Better, Deal. Maybe you should tell her your fullest intentions up front and find out hers. Is this a short term thing for the two of you or do the two of you want the long term? There is a lot of caution in this for you. One, She is married, which means she pledged to honor, love and forsake all others and for her to be with you says she doesn't honor her pledges. Two, Just remember some of the worst gifts ever received came in the prettiest packages.
2006-08-22 18:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still trying to make this ok in your mind? you're crazy.. " she's hot and i like her.. am i still doing the wrong thing..?" yeah.. i would say you are! and you know it.. but you just don't want to give up the hot blonde... this can ruin her marriage.. and can hurt her daughter that you "want to meet." do yourself and this family a favor and end the adulteress relationship that you are in. then try to grow up a bit and stop hoping that you might be able to make this right in your mind. it's not right.. never gonna be right...
2006-08-23 19:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by daisylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am afraid that it is against the sociteal norms.
but at the same time, since both of u are adults and more so consenting ones, there is nothing wrong in the relationship which i hope is based on the mutual trust and physical needs only and not to get some undue advantage or under any pressure.
2006-08-22 19:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude you are so wrong. The woman is married. She has a husband and family. Respect that. Even more than that she should be the one saying damn I am married I shouldnt be doing this. If you have to ask dude it's fkkking wrong.
2006-08-22 18:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mista Cee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off she's 100% Married and you need to leave her alone. And you should have Known better than that to get involved with a married woman.You need to go and find someone who isn't married and wants to be with you. good luck
2006-08-23 00:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋