What does it mean if a guy gives you direct eye contact all the time, smiles at you a lot, tries to make you laugh, touches you lightly a lot on the shoulders and back, gets jealous when other guys flirt/hug you, and is always is a gentleman and helps you out?
OH and btw: what if y'all don't speak the same language but can roughly communicate and their is a "spark" or connection between them. Oh and one person said he's married : why would he act this way??
Thx for any replies! :)
2006-08-22 18:01:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh also I am a Christian girl and I would never ever cheat with a married man because that is against my morals. I am not interested in a sexual relationship with him b/c I'm saving myself for marriage. I just genuinely like/care about him, but I don't want to fall for a guy who could be married....and I would feel horrible, absolutely awful for liking him if he's married, especially by his actions.
2006-08-22 18:13:14 · update #1
Well, he might be married but he can't help it.
He's in love with you. That's pretty obvious.
If he is THAT much in love with you, then he is DEFINITELY not in love with his wife.
He has either fallen out of love with her or he never loved her to begin with.
He might have married her just because she became pregnant with his child or something.
You'll need to ask around and get more details about the history of his marriage.
I wouldn't want you to start falling for someone who just wants to have a fling and then dump you.
Start asking a lot of questions.
Good Luck. I hope it works out.
It just COULD, you know. It happens all the time.
2006-08-22 18:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to understand the average guys mind and how it works. If this guy is married than he's not into something serious. You see, a guy just wants to know: if he werent married, would he have a chance with this girl. What you have described is standard "Guy justs wants to see if he still has it", thats all. Once he knows he's all that (to himself) he's cool and goes back to his beloved wife. He doesnt want to start something, he just wants to see IF it would work out IF he was not married. As for the touching of arm? *ENNNNNNNCK! <--thats a game show incorrect sound, fyi* Wrong, not suppose to do that, that makes the girl think that the guy is interested like that serious kind of interested. As for the language barrier? There is some universal signs people show, but, it might just be a cultural thing. Like, if he want Hispanic it might be acceptable in his culture to talk to every woman like that. WORSE CASE SENARIO (which personally I think is unlikely) is he's cheating on his wife. but like I said, its just a guy thing, dont get too worked up.
2006-08-22 18:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by kk_jediknight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was the guy showing this expressions, it only means one thing I LIKE YOU. A lot of guys are not vocal with their feelings. We show this tru our moves. But be careful there are also guys showing the same expressions but they only have one thing in mind to get laid. So be careful in choosing one coz you really don't know who's who. Be an observer and follow your heart, for it will lead you to the right person. A guy saying "I'm married" is one thing of trying to get rid of the girl or maybe he's tellin the truth and he doesn't want to cheat her wife. So it all comes down on who you will end up with, and the decision lies on YOU.
2006-08-22 18:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by Toffee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you plain and clear he likes you, apparently alot. Reverse the role. If you were acting that way towards a guy why would yoube acting that way?
2006-08-22 18:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People flirt. Before you jump to conclusions and think he's in love w/you, you should try and see if he REALLY likes you. He could be gay you know?
2006-08-22 18:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by paoakalani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is testing you to see will you fall for him and he going to jump for a affair with you so watch yourself.
2006-08-22 18:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is love. I am looking a girl which i can say i love u.
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2006-08-22 18:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he's just using u. and the ppl who say he is married, is because they are jealous u get the attention & they do not.
2006-08-22 18:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really likes you thats like all the signals to where a guy would like to go out with you.
2006-08-22 18:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the language of love is deeper than any
2006-08-22 18:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋