Why does it seem like every time a girl and guy are in a relationship, even if the guy cares deeply and/or love the female, they are so happy to get to the next step that will someday lead to sex. Then again, why do they say, "I don't wanna force you," but say later when you just want to give a simple kiss he says, "Aw, c'mon" and suddenly you're wrapped into a five minute French kiss.
And also, though I know it's okay to say no, does a guy usually think you're a tease if you do or say you're not ready?
2006-08-22 17:57:13 · 9 answers · asked by soul_writer_of_dreams 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You MUST set yer boundaries! All men are horn-dogs ( I know, I am one) "Steps" are a logical progression that should only be taken when BOTH parties are ready. Communication is the answer... if you both know where you are coming from at all times, there should not be a problem... talk with him!
2006-08-22 18:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by 4nik8er 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's just natural instinct, they want to have sex. I'm not like that though, at least, I hope not (reading Yahoo! Answers doesn't exactly inspire confidence). I would be quite happy with the simple kiss, and would wait however long it takes for her to be comfortable, hey, patience is a virtue.
To me, no means no, if she wants to tease me she has to think of some other way. Sorry, but I prefer to err on the side of caution.
2006-08-22 18:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are hardons from the head to the feet.....the more they can get the better, and yes if u fool around with lots of touching and kissing and don't put out they think ur a tease.......any more questions?
2006-08-22 18:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the funny thing is they are only pushy when it comes to the next step when it comes to sex and playin house but when they actually get married they arent so sure bein pushy worked in their favor lol serves then right.
2006-08-22 18:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the basis of all male attraction is physical. so when a guy likes a girl he it thinkin that he would like to get naked with her eventually. thats why when dating, they are so eager to get to that step.
guys dont think your a tease, they say that cos it annoys them that you dont know what you want.
2006-08-22 18:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are pushy..i think, that you are nothing but a number on their belt so they can go to friends and brag about having sex with you
if they are pushy, and trying to rush you into it, that is because they just want to lay with you not be with you
2006-08-22 18:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by lil bit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have our brians in our penis, we can't think right when we are with a nice, pretty, sweet and smart girl.
2006-08-22 18:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mesum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they feel u may b disappointed if they dont ush.
it is ok 4 u to say no.
they understand.
2006-08-22 18:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.dating-secret.blogspot.com/
2006-08-22 18:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋