2006-08-22 17:36:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only if you are not afraid of the answer not being what you thought it would be...sometimes it is best to leave well enough alone!
2006-08-22 17:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by old dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not good to test a guy - it is good to talk to him about whether he really loves you or not. You test someone if you are a teacher and the person you are testing is your student. You test a guy you with he may resent you for your actions because what you are doing is playing games with him. You should ways share your feelings with him or realize that what you are aiming for with the guy is a dishonest relationship.
2006-08-22 17:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!
Relationships should not be a game. By testing someone you show a lack of trust and immaturity. I don't intend to sound mean but, how would you like it if he tested you. What if you failed the test. What if you really love him and failed the test. The only one who knows what the answer to the test you would be giving is you. And just like every other scene we play out in our heads, when it comes to real life it doesn't work out the same way.
Testing is setting you, him and your relationship up for failure.
2006-08-22 17:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the love test
2006-08-22 17:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, if you test him, even if it prove he really loves. When he knows it he might not trust you that much anymore. Because if you really trust him, you wouldn't have tested him in the 1st place I think.
He might test you too. Since you did it 1st to him. You may not like it either.
2006-08-22 17:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by Retarted Helper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls and their "tests". When will girls grow up and be mature adults. It is dumb "tests" that ruins relationships. And yeah if any guy or girl has to "test" their lover, where is the love and trust in that relationship?
2006-08-22 17:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by toy_00song 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. If he were to ever find out, he could end up hurt and/or mad at you for doing that. In these types of situations, I always ask myself, "Would I want someone to do that to me? How would this make me feel if it did happen to me?" If he loves you, he will show it when HE is ready. If he feels rushed, then it will take longer or he may not show it at all.
2006-08-22 17:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by innocentlysweet31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can test him, but once he found out you tested him, he might be unhappy because he might felt that you do not trust him.
If the guy loves you, you can see through his actions..
2006-08-22 17:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by silly_gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are always doing this to their men. It makes them happy when they know they're loved. It's okay to play a few games, but don't go overboard or he might figure it out and get angry.
2006-08-22 17:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, go ahead and test him, then when he gets pissed at you cause you didn't believe him and had to test him don't come crying back here for an answer to that problem.
2006-08-22 17:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything big, but there's nothing wrong with a small little test.... become suddenly "busy" for a few days and see if he calls you up because he misses you.
2006-08-22 17:44:52 · answer #11 · answered by Matt B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋