What should I do about this?

Question

OK, theres a girl I like. She figured out that I like her and I admitted it. She likes me too and we are going to hang out at my place and shes giving me a back massage. She told me she loves kissing, cuddling and making out. I want to do this stuff, but Im afraid Ill freeze up. What should I do?

Answer 1

Hey bud, don't let these guys in your peer group ( age) level intimidate you. Everybody's nervous around someone they like a lot, regardless of how old they are. Do you want a serious relationship or just a good time? Ask yourself that first. Either way just try to be yourself, thats who she likes. If you start making out and you feel like it, make your moves however you feel good about it, If your hands go somewhere and she doesn't want to go there, trust me, she'll let you know. Don't worry about offending her, she knows that's a possibility if shes puttingherself in that position, and she knows about sex. She knows guys make moves and she won't dislike you for it, even if she says no. In fact, personal experience taught me she's mor likely to feel bad if you don't do what feels natural to you. Just be yourself. You;ll make mistakes, get rejected a few times, score some... every guy does. Don't be fooled by what your male friends say. They're just as scared and just as inexperienced as you at some point. The worst that can hapen is she says no. Play safe though, for your sake and hers.

Answer 2

1. Calm down man, she'll be just as nervous as you are.
2. It isn't the end of the world if you mess anything up, just laugh about it.
3. Don't let those hands go to far for the first couple times, girls generally like to know that there is some feelings involed, if your willing to wait a while they are willing to be that much more willing.
4. Last but not least, have fun!!

Answer 3

First off if she's giving ya a back rub and ya not ready to pounce her and kiss her then there is something definately wrong , seek some help maybe , coz if ya like her and she likes ya and ya don;t go the next step ( especially if ya getting a back rub , ya nuts !!! i say go for it .... sometimes there is only one chance to make that very best impression and being afraid is normal if its real .

Answer 4

By what you're telling me you're not comfortable with it but want to do it. Start with the small stuff like cuddling and kissing get comfortable with that then try making out when you feel ready. Tell her why you're reluctant to do this stuff with her and if she's understanding she'll probably go slow with you to get you comfortable with this stuff.

Answer 5

clam down. if she really likes that stuff she will be fine with it and she wont think your weird if you freeze up. practice like on a pillow or your hand NOT IN PUBLIC!!! because then she will think you are a big freak! just try it when you do cuddle, etc. email me i want to see how it went [e-mail]
<3 always,
italian princess 341

Answer 6

Find an exchange program where you can spend some time in the Northeast (preferably Queens NY). Six months up here and I guarantee you won't be asking dumb-*** questions like this one....

Answer 7

she has given you the green light so you have nothing to be nervous about. stop putting so much pressure on yourself or you will freeze up. relax, take it easy and do things as they come naturally. things will work out. stress less. good luck.

Answer 8

Are you 14? Get over it....she likes you and if she offered you a back massage then you might as well enjoy it

Answer 9

You won't freeze if you do you better freeze after she leave you.Be a big boy and be ready for anything she bring to you.

Answer 10

Go with the flow honey...don't rush or force anything from her or yourself..If it's gonna be a real relationship and it's gonna work you need to take it slow.