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Am I supposed to be alive, why do I think about death and suicide all the time

2006-08-22 17:21:35 · 17 answers · asked by Jabaris H 2 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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God has a purpose for your life, and for my life or neither one of us would be here right now. I know that sometimes life can get hard, but things do eventually get better.

My advice to you, is get some help from the church or from a preacher. Tell them what you are feeling and thinking about.
God wants your life to be adundant and He wants you to be happy.

2006-08-22 17:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by Judah's voice 5 · 0 0

I don't know whether you are going to see God after you die. I've got to tell you something about that since you asked -- I doubt it.

You think about death and suicide all the time because no one loves you. Your heart is warm and you're living an emotionally cold life. So, you're lonely and feel bleak and up pops the grim reaper and ideas of suicide.

Let me tell you an awful secret -- something people won't talk about and only the wise know this anymore. "Grief comes before love." Once you have crossed the desert of grief and keep your ability to love without being loved by others -- and reach the oasis where you can live with it so that it doesn't bother you anymore -- then, and only then, are you given love.

The people you see who are happy their whole lives and have love right now will see it pop like a zit and leave them alone --unless they leaved to handle grief first.

So you're doing this in the right order. Be patient. Enjoy every beautiful thing in the world and every inspiring song you hear. That's how love comes to you.

2006-08-23 00:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0 0

Everyone is going to see God after they die, either being welcomed as his children or for judgment before being cast into the Lake of Fire. Thinking about death and suicide are symptoms of an unbalanced mental state. It could be for a variety of reasons. You don't say if you are a Christian or not. Either way, it's not in God's will for a person to choose the time of their departure from this world. It could very well be a spiritual attack designed to get you to kill your self and grieve God in the process. If you belong to a church then seek some counseling. If you don't then find one quick and turn your life over to Christ before it's too late!

"So Jesus again said to them, "Truly, truly, I say to you, I am the door of the sheep. All who came before me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them. I am the door. If anyone enters by me, he will be saved and will go in and out and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. John 10:7-10

2006-08-23 00:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0 0

The idea of a God is generally thought of as being non-tangible. In many lore seeing a/the God has meant instant death as the being can not comprehend what God is. So will you "see" God? Probably not on a personal level. Simply put there would be too many beings to meet personally. As Isaac Asimov wrote: "While I could theoretically meet and greet every being in the universe, it would be quite impossible..."

2006-08-23 18:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy P 1 · 0 0

God said "Yes, I would like that, but you have to choose Me first, I'm not going to force you to love Me. The depth of my love for you exceeds the capacity of the brain I made for you (sorry, if the brain was big enough it wouldn't have fit on the planet)."

We all go through phases where death & suicide preoccupy our thoughts. The goal is to know that it will pass and try to escape the repetitive boredom of it by seeking out happy thoughts. I notice by your other questions that you mention suicide regularly.
You are a unique and wonderful piece of the puzzle, this universe, that God created. Without you being what you came here to be, it could cast our world into chaos. You are a special treasure, precious to your creator, not like some gold & jewel encrusted Chess Piece, but like a first child that parents had to try years & years to conceive. Please don't hurt yourself. Remember when you waited and waited for that special someone to arrive, and how happy you were when they arrived? God loves you like that only more. You are so awesome, you deserve to choose life.

2006-08-23 00:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by J Z 4 · 0 0

if your looking for truth and love that is in Jesus. If you know Him your going to be with Him for eternity. But Jesus does not go "thumbs up" for suicide as a way of escape. i know that things at points seem so trivial and as if they don't matter and you just want silence but Jesus can and does fill all the holes in us if we let Him. Yes you are supposed to be alive why else would you be here? Jesus loves you and wants you to know Him more than you do. God feels the same toward all of us.

2006-08-23 00:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Death is a very scary thing. However, death does not have to be permanent. God already sent a messiah nearly two thousand years ago. His name is Jesus Christ. He died for the sins of mankind so that you don't have to be dead when you are dead. You can live forever beyond mortal death. Death is very scary. Have faith in God and you won't have to fear death. If you believe in God, cleanse yourself of sin through Christ, you will not truly die. I promise you.

2006-08-23 00:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by CK 5 · 0 0

Reasons may be your life conditions may not be good now. May be you dont have gf/bf? You dont see any points in living here etc. Give a soul search what is missing in you, solve it then you wont think about all this.

2006-08-23 00:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 2 · 0 0

yes the bible says all mouths shall confess, and all knees shall bow. we will see him on judgement. and if you read the bible you should know that if you kill yourself you will lift up your eyes in hell, its scary not something people want to hear but the truth.and yes your supposed to be alive if you wasnt supposed to be you wouldnt be here. I am of the apostolic faith, it is the bible way not something from man.i will keep you in my prayers

2006-08-23 00:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by wuzzup24252006 2 · 0 0

first of all, get off ur pity-wagon...and yes, everyone will stand before God in the end .and he also says..don't be foolish and go before ur time...and if ur not happy due to those thoughts, it is because satan is robbing you of ur happiness, rebuke him in the name of Jesus, if u do not put God first in ur life,
u will be miserable...he said that he will put us through trial and tribulations, he never promised us a rose garden...and the next time u r feeling sorry for yourself about ur life, remember this....noone here on this earth could ever compare of how Jesus suffered on that cross for us...we will all stand before GOD..he will judge us for our good deeds here on earth, that's it...so, get out and start doing good and helping others...God Bless......

2006-08-23 10:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by justmenothinelse 5 · 0 0

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