I work with this one great looking guy, and him and I get along pretty well - we talk and everything. He knows I think he's handsome, and he's returned the favor in saying I am pretty. He's got a crazy "ex"/current girlfriend if you will - and talks all the time about how pretty this girl is from a local tanning place just to make me jealous - just to get me to say something in response. I want to know if he's really worth my time, or if I really want to try something with him - how to go about starting a relationship with him since I kind-a work with him.
Please someone help me out! It would help tons.
2006-08-22 17:16:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went out on a limb, and asked him to go out sometime ~ and he said definately. I just need to give him a day, but now I'm kinda apprehensve about it being it a sticky situation and all. That's why I'm asking this now.
2006-08-22 17:25:50 · update #1
i wouldn't start a relationship with anyone that i work with, it just causes problems to occur, lots of different situations,
1. you work with him and then go home with him, eventually you just get so sick of him or vise versa way too quickly because you don't have any time apart.
2. you have an argument and it spills over into work and causes problems at work and someone looses their job.
3. you guys break up and still work together and have to face each other and it was not a good breakup, fights start and someone looses their job.
4. you guys break up and are on friendly terms but jelousy starts when one of you starts dating someone else.
5. you guys have a non mutual breakup and one person is not willing to let it go and the stalking starts.
i could just go on and on and on with the scenarios of the dangers of dating in the workplace.
but there is always the remote possibility that it could work out nicely and you guys live hapily ever after
2006-08-22 17:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend..if he's trying to make you jealous by bringing up this other woman, he's into playing games. Just because he's good looking doesn't mean he's worth a relationship with.
Do yourself a favor and find a descent, mature man who is for real!
2006-08-23 00:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe being friends would be better for right just for the simple fact that you two work together so if something happened between you two and it didn't work out it would be awkward working with him
2006-08-23 00:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_girl057 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cannot get your attention in any other way than bringing up his crazy ex/current then he isn't worth the headache & heartache of an office romance. Please take it from a survivor, office romance is a very very very bad idea.
2006-08-23 00:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea to dating ur colleague in same office, unless one of u plan to quit the job soon.
2006-08-23 00:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mix business with pleasure. He sounds like a player anyway. Find someone else. Good luck!
2006-08-23 00:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. first of all find out if he's free. you dont want to be wasting your time if his ex/current gf has feelings for him, or worse... he has feelings for her.
second, is it okay with employees to have a romantic relationship? if so, ask him whats on his mind. communicate with him or ask him to hang out.
2006-08-23 00:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree bad idea!!
2006-08-23 00:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋