He said that he called me all day- when I didn't hear anything. He went on a fishing trip, and tomorrow he's going to go to Idaho. And on Friday- he's gonna go out with his 'friends'. And he leaves me out of everything. Whenever he goes and does his own ****- he doesn't even bother to ask me to come, and when I know that he's gonna go somewhere- it's always at the last minute. Shouldn't I hae a right to be mad at him? HE USUALLY DOESNT EVEN CALL unless he's gonna go out. I ALWAYS HAS TO CALL HIM!!!!
2006-08-22 17:00:39 · 27 answers · asked by bratworth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IM SO ******* PISSED OFF!!!!!!
2006-08-22 17:04:03 · update #1
HE HASNT CALLED EVEN THOUGH HE ALREADY GOT HOME! WHAT THE FU(K IS HIS PROBLEM HE ACTS LIKE ID BE ALRIGHT WITH EVERYLITTLE THING THAT HE DOES WELL IM ******* NOT HES ACTING LIKE A *****!
2006-08-22 17:04:59 · update #2
We've been going out for eight months now- he says that I don't give him enough fu(king time to go do his own shyt. I'm the one always waiting for him to call.
2006-08-22 17:07:42 · update #3
He says that we see eachother everyday- but we don't do sh1t. All he does when he sees me is use the computer and calls me a guppy. What kind of 'We see eachother everyday' sh1t is that?! We don't even go out on dates anymore! And he gets mad at me if I tell him I have something to do! I"M SO FU(KING PISSED OFF!!!!!!!!
2006-08-22 17:11:02 · update #4
You do deserve a call if its a serious relationship, and he should try to bring you into his life more if he really likes you. Maybe he isnt ready for a serious relationship this is something you need to ask himm about. Dont b mean about it or give him an ulitmatum just ask if he wants you to be apart of his life or if he just wants someone to have when he wnats someone. Depending on his answer you will know what to do.
2006-08-22 17:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad, it just sounds like he is not looking for a serious relationship yet. NEVER call a guy, it makes women seem desperate, if he wants to talk to you he will call. If you constantly call him, it will come off as if you don't have a life. Do the same as him. Hang out w/ your friends and have a good time. It seems like he is so relax and don't give him the pleasure of knowing that you are waiting for him. When the time is right and you both have had your fun, your relationship will be better. Good luck.
2006-08-23 00:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by jaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are suppose to be 50-50. He expects you to call when he doesn't even do it! F*** that ish! It's suppose to be 50-50, everything down the middle, treat me as you would want to be treated. Do one of these 2 things:
Option 1: Talk to him and set the record straight
Option 2: Dump his butt faster than he runs out to go fishing or trips to Idaho!
2006-08-23 00:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Omar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing for you to do is to get a life. Not being sarcastic there, but don't you have friends also? Go out, emjoy yourself. You will probably find yourself someone you are more compatable with and who likes spending time with you. Good luck!
2006-08-23 00:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, Let me tell you, after reading your situation, I think you should of left him a long time ago, hun. Come on now, It doesnt take a genius to figure out that this guy is not only a jerk but apparently has no interest in you. You know, you need to forget about being mad and just get rid of this idiot. I think you need to go out and do things for yourself. Dont just sit around and be upset at what this guy does or doesnt do. This guy doesnt care about you so dont waste your time caring about him or what he does. Let him do his thing and you go and do your thing. Just do me one favor, if even tries to tell you he's sorry, please dont listen to that pile of crap, ok? You have a back bone, use it. You have 2 feet stand on them and dont take his crap for nothing. Its time for you to be happy for once. My best advice for you at this point is to just move on.........move on hun, its time that you have a little fun in your life.......Good Luck hun!!!!!!
2006-08-23 00:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by D.J B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the deal is that it is implanted into us boys head to not show any puppy love.....he is just taking that concept a little too far. He think that if he calls u a lot, u will think he is a wuss and u will dump him. Thats his mistake, so explain him if he is playing that game its not gonna work with u and he will have to stop. you might be very special to him and doesnt wanna lose u. So if u tell him that, and if i wat say is right about him, then he will stop, i believe that is the problem.........if he is still the same, DUMP THAT B*STARD!!!!........Gimme 10 points if u like my answer :)
2006-08-23 00:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he is not ready to have a girl, you should be with someone who find you interesting enough to include you in his life on regular basis, that man sounds like he has better things to do. Go and find someone who really wants you around. You can't spend your life waiting for him!
2006-08-23 00:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your boyfriend you have a problem. When he goes away on one of his trips you should break up with him. Since he doesn't call you while he's away by the time he gets back he'll be an ex-bf. Who need this cr*p?
2006-08-23 00:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say h'''' ya, guys get mad if we go out and they dont go and they always do w/out ya, not thinkin maybe ya like to do somethin w/ them, this one though sounds like he's runnin from ya and ya need to stop chasen, find friends to go w/ and start leavin him out stop callin as well if he dont bother to do as you did then dont bother at all hes got you runnin chasen his tail and it should be the oposite and no one should have to go findin and chasen should be together or not at all, ya need space but if gettin carried away then give up,
2006-08-23 00:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If a guy likes you and wants to be with you he will put everything aside just to get your attention.
In the old days girls dont call guys.
2006-08-23 00:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋