I grew up in a male dominated family with a domineering father and a highly submissive mother. I have communication problems. Though I know that I am talking to people who are not judging me, I tend to be too careful and say things for which I repent later. In other words, I want to be natural. I have been quite succesful in other aspects of life but this one.
2006-08-22 16:47:57 · 8 answers · asked by suman 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
you shud go around with your friends, read good books, hav some gud mails, participate in activities that help you in your speech, jus go on dont think abt what will happen in case you have done any mistakes no probs after all we are human beings bond to make mistakes. be confident abt watever things you do it rightly think twice before you do so that later on you repent. do everything you like so that in future when you think abt the past you feel happy abt things you have done & dont regret on things you were not able to do. so jus go on where life takes you.
dare to dream that you are a wonderful person, unique person. learn that life is not a problem to solve, but a gift to be cherished.and you'll be able to stay one up on what used to get you down.the bottom line is, if you want to be something in life, it depends only on you...... your thoughts, your power of persistence.
2006-08-22 17:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
This is a common problem in our INdian families.Best way to deal with such problems are to involve your self in more productive work and /or start reading books which hels to improve your personality and improve your confidence to dealwith such problem. If you share with me what type ofproblemyou face,I can suggest you the books which can help you. Communicate back if youare interested .
wish you good luck
2006-08-23 00:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by suhaspp19591 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have always tried to face my fears in life by directly getting involved in things from which i am scared the most.It helps a lot
,the first few days are the hardest and after a couple of days i laugh at the things i was sactred of.Try this
2006-08-23 00:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by aila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people have this problem, maybe Hypnothearapy can help or you may want to join an online group to see what others do to boost their confidence.
2006-08-22 23:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by Equik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a club or a sports team. I tend to talk alot and act more carefree when I'm doing something fun. Just do something you like.
2006-08-23 00:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by PimpMeister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think positive. Dont think that someone will think some thing about you, when you do any things.
2006-08-23 00:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by alti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many have it.i have this too.but try max to overcome this problem like me
2006-08-22 23:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by TONY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TWO WORDS U KEEP REPEATING TO UR SELF, 'I CAN' , NEXT IS JUST KEEP TRYING AND 'JUST DO 'IT U WILL ALLWYS HAVE NEXT CHANCE IF IN CASE U FAIL ,JUST DO IT,
2006-08-23 06:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋