My fiance and I are have some problems. He has been locked up for two years. Lately he has become paranoid of my male friends (most of whom I've known since high school). He wrote me and told me that he didn't want me hanging out with any guys period. Should I do this or tell him to take a hike?
2006-08-22 16:03:17 · 15 answers · asked by Paige M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think so....because if he loves you then he should be able to trust you...but it looks like he doesn't so I think you should leave him...you deserve someone who's able to trust you wholeheartedly...
2006-08-22 16:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by ky_anime56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on do you really want to begin life with someone with a criminal history. You deserve better. He is being controlling from his cell what is he going to be like when he out. OK so he feeling a bit left out of your life by being inside he should have thought of that before he did what ever he did. These sort of relationships are hard as you already know but being with a control freak in the real world is worse at least you now don't have to put up with him every day
2006-08-22 23:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds too controlling to be healthy. being locked up must induce some pretty intense emotions, and i can understand why he might be getting a little paranoid and crazy, but this is really not going to be good for you. that kind of manipulation and control can turn into an abusive relationship pretty easily. i'd say you're better off without him.
2006-08-22 23:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Carly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on when he's getting out of prison. If it's in the next six months and you like him enough, wait.
If not, go ahead and cut him loose because chances are he's only going to get MORE paranoid because your friends are on the outside and he's on the inside feeling helpless.
2006-08-22 23:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by t blk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. Why would you put your life on hold for years? I hate to be cruel but maybe it is time for a reality check. Is this guy going to be any better after he is released? Does he really care about you or is it better you than nobody?
2006-08-22 23:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should take a hike. He is trying to control you and that's not ok.
2006-08-22 23:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. paranoia about guy friends is the first step in becoming a super control freak. if you let him have his say in this, soon he'll be controlling everything else. no relationship is worth losing your friends. and no relationship requires absolute obedience. it sounds to me he doesn't care about you.
2006-08-22 23:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by CrazySnail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's locked up? Aim higher
2006-08-22 23:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by Scottie Boy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt give up your friends, so I guess you are better off telling him to hit the road
2006-08-22 23:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by kf4wwe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need him if he is locked up go about your life start it over with a nice one
2006-08-22 23:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋