I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. I love him dearly adn I would do anything for him.I trust him with my life. I get a warm feelin inside everytime he touches me and I never stop thinking about him. So if I no I love him, then y do I have doubtful thoughts? The thoughts arent what scare me, what scares me is that I might lose him. So wuts the deal? are the doubtful thoughts comin just cause im young n inexperienced or b/c of something more? opinions please..
2006-08-22 15:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by texascountrygirl89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Better push the doubts away before you end up pushing him away. Stick with the warm feeling. Any insecurities you might have will turn to jealousy and lack of trust, not a good way to hold on to a good thing. Experience will come in time, if you have already been with him 5 months, apparently he isn't concerned about your experience, the less you have, the more you can learn together with him.
2006-08-22 16:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by MrsPTB4Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal, the more u love a person, the more fear u will get to lose him, and u will have lots of doubts in yrself of how to prevent u getting hurt..
y nt try tink the other way round by thinking how to concern more n build yr self-esteem up to make him love u more rather than lose him due to yr confident low?
he will also do the same back to you when times come n love will grow fr here...relax...enjoy your loveship...gd luck!
2006-08-22 16:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mobiken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young and my guess is he is as well this word lose in the context you use it means he is a possesion to you.
you need to relax and let what's going to happen do just that you have a long life ahead so try to work on what's inside your head
2006-08-22 16:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by sexercist4hire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doubt and fear are not uncommon...if you've had breakups before you understand the reality and fear that it could happen again...
Try not to dwell on your fears though...too much focus on them, could bring about the very thing you fear...people can be their own worst enemy at times...and end up sabatoging their relationship without realizing it...or without wanting to realize it...
2006-08-22 16:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets doubts. Focus on the present not all the what-ifs.
2006-08-22 15:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all wish ya would have told us yo age,and second 5 months is nothing darling,i cant say you dont love him but,as a mother myself trust im thinking its infatuation,or lust,if you haveing doubts,thats telling you something!! think bout it!
2006-08-22 16:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by sha g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to have the same feeling. i guess i still do kinda. i think ur doubts are just abotu losing him and dont worry about it. why dont u talk with a friend about it tahts what helped me.
2006-08-22 15:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋