I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. I love him dearly adn I would do anything for him.I trust him with my life. I get a warm feelin inside everytime he touches me and I never stop thinking about him. So if I no I love him, then y do I have doubtful thoughts? The thoughts arent what scare me, what scares me is that I might lose him. So wuts the deal? are the doubtful thoughts comin just cause im young n inexperienced or b/c of something more? opinions please..
2006-08-22 15:44:23 · 4 answers · asked by texascountrygirl89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just trust ur heart
2006-08-22 15:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by blake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what your going through it is very draining.
the only difference is im not inexperienced or young im 30, the reason i feel this way is because iv got a bad habbit of always feeling like" if it feels to good to be true it usually is" its definatly a negitive way to react to happiness but its a learnt behavour from constantly being let down by the influential men in my life.
i feel that iv finally found a genuin stayer but i also fear that subconciously im pushing him away because in my mindset i think that i will be incharge of the situation when he has had enough and moves on.
be carefull that your insecuritys dont become the reason that he leaves,
best of luck to you.
you need to always say to yourself that you are a deserving and worthy person for happiness and trust you boyfriends love.
2006-08-22 23:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by shandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we tend to think about things that may happen. It's a way of trying to prepare yourself to deal with it if things don't work out. Just don't dwell on it.
2006-08-22 22:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be telling yourself that you dont love him and your lieing to your self.
2006-08-22 22:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kris T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋