Girls lose interest when they see I'm not comfortable talking about myself...?

Question

On dates, girls seem to lose interest in me once they start asking me about myself and they see I'm not comfortable talking about myself. I'm not that comfortable talking to new females in general. I try to be humble when answering a girl's questions about myself and so speak in generalities and leave out specifics for fear I might give the impression I'm full of myself. When talking about myself I also have this disinterested tone that's just nervousness, not boredom.

Hearing my female friends rip apart guys who talked about themselves for too long makes me weary of saying too much. How can I keep girls interested when it comes to talking about myself and not worry about saying too much?

Answer 1

It sounds like you are trying to relax and be yourself but your nervousness is getting in the way. The best advice that I can give you is to talk about what kinds of things that you like to do for fun and what your interests are. Try to stay away from bragging about your looks, how much cash you make etc.... But please, try to lose the monotone voice. Being too humble comes across as either fishing for complements or having a very low self-esteem. Good Luck.

Answer 2

Give a very brief explanation about what you do and what you like to do. Don't go into too much detail unless you're. This way, you can carry on a conversation without rambling on about yourself.

Answer 3

Just honestly answer the questions that they ask you. If they didn't want to know, they wouldn't ask. You need to feel comfortable with yourself.

Answer 4

Stop dating until you can grow up.

Answer 5

I go with dream angel

Answer 6

just be confident in yourself

Answer 7

could always lie