What can i use BESIDES the pill and BESIDES condoms to keep my from getting pregnant?

Question

Please, i really love a guy alot right now and i'm positive i am ready to have sex(he's the one). But me and my mom aren't talkers like that and i CANT ask her for birthcontrol pills. Where do i get them privatly without anyone knowing? and is there any medications i could take prior if I know i'm going to be having sex like asprin or tylonel or something like that that would reduce my risk of getting pregnant?

Answer 1

the word NO. and if you think that tylenol or aspirin can keep you from getting pregnant YOU ARE NOT READY FOR SEX. being ready for sex means being ready to accept the consequences of your actions.

Answer 2

Seriously, there is nothing like aspirin or Tylenol that would reduce you chances of pregnancy. You really need to check out some web site about birth control options. You can by Jellies, spermicide, sponges and other things at Wal-Mart. The only thing is. These birth control options are only about 80% effective. There is nothing unsexy about putting on a condom so I'm not sure why you don't want to use them. They are the only thing that protect against Sexually Transmitted diseases. You really should use condoms with anyone you plan to have sex with right up until you get marred. My husband and I used condoms until we got married, even though I was already pregnant! It's just a safe and smart thing to do. Even if you trust the person. Birth control and condoms should be used together to prevent pregnancy and the spread of STD's. Planned Parenthood gives away free condoms (up to 12 at day) and sells birth control to minors at a discount price. The don't ask for a parent either. Most towns and cities have a Planned Parenthood near by.

Please read what I wrote and take it seriously. I know what I am talking about. Just remember that sex is a big responsibility and virginity is not something that you can just get back.

Answer 3

Let me ask you this: Are you responsible enough to have a baby? Can you deal with getting AIDS or some other Sexually Transmitted Disease? Have some respect for yourself, and dont let anyone talk you into having sex especially unprotected sex! If you think that Tylenol or Asprin will prevent pregnancy or an STD than you certainly dont need to be having sex. Tylenol and Asprin are for Pain and Fever and Headaches not to prevent you from the effects of having sex. There is nothing out there that can give you 100% guarentee that you wont get pregnant or an STD EXCEPT FOR ABSTINENCE!!!! You need to educate yourself. Also if you really Love this guy like you say you do than SEX can wait until you are commited to one another in Marriage. You say you really love this guy alot RIGHT NOW, BUT what about TOMORROW or the next Day or A year Down the road, or even what about if he were to give you and STD, or get you pregnant? You have some very important issues to think about. Dont give in. BE SAFE and Respectful of yourself! Lord Forbid you decide to have sex pleaseeeeee talk with a doctor first!

Answer 4

You can go to planned parenthood with a close friend or by yourself...they do the angela or katie program where if they need to call your house and your mom asks who it is they will say Katie or whatever name.

I strongly suggest you use condoms as well because you never know what the other person is doing behind your back.

I'm in a 100% commited relationship for over five years, so I just use VCF. You can buy it at Walgreens or CVS, and they are little spermacide films that you fold and insert fifteen minutes before sex. They also make the sponge again but they can be kind of difficult for inexperienced users.

Answer 5

Before you have sex. Know this stuff prior. The stuff you are asking is quite novice to me. Should have a basic idea and you need a lot more information/education before you make this level happen.

You need to visit plannedparenthood to find the nearest one near you. You also need to take into consideration NOTHING is 100%. Meaning, once you have sex, you are at risk. If you get pregnant, this "relationship" with your mother will matter since you will need to disclose you are pregnant while you are a minor living with her etc.

You can also talk to your gyno or your doctor privately to get a referral. It is confidential. Most States and counties have a confidential agreement with patient and doctor. (U.S).

If you take any medications, that can INCREASE the chance of becoming pregnant by DECREASING the effectiveness of the pill. REALLY get educated on that.

There is nothing else you can take other than using other forms/methods.

Examples:

Him using a condom. You on birth control (shot, pill or patch. Whatever you wish to go on) and using spermicide foam/gel (either on the condom or bought separately).

Other than that, you are just going to be at risk. How much? Depends on how accurate you are using protection correctly and what type of protection methods you two choose to use.

Answer 6

No, Aspirin and Tylenol are for headaches and they will do nothing to stop from getting you pregnant.

Ok let's start from the beginning. First, I am not going to encourage you to have sex. I think sex is a big step that should only be taken when both parties are old enough and adult enough to understand the consequences of what is being done. With that being said, I will go to the next question you have asked.

If you are going to be sexually active, then please do protect yourself. Not only from getting pregnant but from sexually transmitted diseases. Make an appointment at your local health department. They will see you in total confidentiality and prescribe you birth control.. Again, please make sure that you take the necessary precautions before you take this step. Take care of yourself.

Answer 7

If you are at least 18 years old, you can definately get a prescription for birth control pills from your doctor without a consent from your parents. You can also purchase a pill from your local drug store where you take the pill the day after you've had sex. I believe it's called Plan B (it was on the news) and there are other brands too.

Answer 8

Why don't you get your slack boyfriend to get some condoms. Or is he too shy to go to the pharmacy. Does he think that the pharmacist is going to say 'Im sorry, but these condoms are too big for your little guy.' Tell him to grow a dick and buy them himself. No, pain killers cannot prevent pregnancy, that is a stupid question, although if you down a whole packet maybe your scrape with death would prevent conception. Happy first time, awkward, ouch that hurt, no your not in yet, over in three second love making

Answer 9

I got bc pills at 15 from the local womens clinic and its free and nobody has to know not even your mother. Also there are no medications to keep you from getting preg, also u should use a condom u can get those free to at the clinic. They will give you bc pills some info papers and a brown bag of condoms like 30-40 of them free.

Answer 10

If you think "tylenol" or "aspirin" or "something like that" will prevent you from getting pregnant, you're obviously unready, too immature to have sex. how old are you? loving someone, even if he/she is "the one" doesn't mean that you must have sex. you could easily buy condoms, pills and other contraceptives but these DO fail and girls DO get pregnant even if they did use these products. not to mention the possibility of contracting a disease (herpes, HIV). are you ready to face the consequences should you get pregnant or sick? will you be ready to face your family (you couldn't even talk to your mom about sex)? is your 'the one" boyfriend ready to face whatever consequences should he get pregnant? will you be able to take care, support, feed, put to school, etc the kid that you'll bring into this world if ever? think think think! read the other advices given to you. check out resolved questions on unwanted pregnancy, abortion. think some more before doing it with your boyfriend. you don't want to be sorry and mess up your life.

Answer 11

there is nothing that you can take and using condoms is the best chose. That way you are protected by the condom for STD's and if you can't talk to your mother then go to planned parenthood.

But if you think that you can take tyenol or asprin to keep from getting pregnant then you need not to have sex until you learn what causes and prevents pregnancy.