i think that is so sick but i hear and see a lot of it. why would they want to do that. do they think younger girls are easier to manipulate or are they just atrracted to a more younger looking person. we all know why a girl would wanna date an older guy but what is the guys reason for wanting to be in this type of relationship.
2006-08-22 15:24:57 · 30 answers · asked by Shea Butta 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that most of the men that target that age range, is simply because they feel like a girl that age will be easier to control and manipulate, than a grown woman with a head on her shoulders.
i also think it is so sick that some of these grown men go out and prey on these younger girls. these girls havent been validated at home so they go looking for a man outside of their home that they think will validate them. so sad.
2006-08-22 15:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by 0000000000000000000000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I don't think appearance is really the issue. A 20 year old girl is not going to look much older than a 15 year old. I think men that want to date young girls know that they don't have much experience in the ways of relationships, and the feel they can mold their young mind into doing whatever they want them to do. A man like this also wants complete control of all aspects of the relationship. Also, he may be attracted to the fact that she is possibly a virgin, and imagines himself as the one "deflowering" her. 20 year old guys that date little girls like this obviously aren't mature enough emotionally, either, to go after a girl that is older and may be more wise to his ways. Either way, it's very odd. This isn't the case in all relationships where the male is older, but when you are 15 and he is 20, that is a very big age gap. There are a lot of years of experience inbetween 14/15 and 20. Simply put, this guy is looking for a little girl to have for his very own, like a pretty little doll or something. I agree. It's very messed up. And it's messed up that parents let their little girls date grown adult men.
2006-08-22 22:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the girls either look/act much older or the guy is very immature, so it would be like dating someone your own age. It's not sick all of the time, once in a while, it is actually a real relationship that actually ends up in marriage, trust me I can vouch for that, but yeah a lot of the time guys are just trying to manipulate the girls to get what they want.
2006-08-22 22:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by UT Longhorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said it, they are easier to manipulate. Guys know that a younger girl wants to look cool in front of her friends, so she'll do more to try and keep the guy. A girl their own age won't put up with their sh*t, so they go after a young girl because they know she will. They are probably immature, so a girl their own age wouldn't have them to begin with. A young girl will go as far as sex just to impress her peers, while a 20-something woman knows better than that.
In short, they can get what they want, do what they want, and in general be a bad boyfriend with consequences.
2006-08-22 22:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew the answer to that...My sister who is now 16 got pregnant by a 20 yr old guy. (she was 15 when she had her baby) I just don't understand what a 20yr old could have with a 15-16 yr old. I don't think age matters as long as your atleast 18.
**and this wasn't the only 20 yr old guy..she dated 2 more before that!!**
2006-08-22 22:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very sick. My first sexual experience was with a 24 year old guy and I was 15. Until this day, I still think he's sick. But to answer your question, I think they just want a quick piece of a_s and know that girls that age are usually easy to manipulate.
2006-08-22 22:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by smiles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys that age who date younger girls have trouble getting dates with girls their own age and the younger girls think it's cool to date an older guy.
They are usually insecure. In most states it is against the law for anyone over 18 to have sex with a minor (statutory rape) so they are taking a chance if they have sex.
2006-08-22 22:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by RoZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess would be that they can't get girls their own age, or that they are pedophiles. Or the most obvious one they are not so experienced or endowed that an older women would maybe make fun of them, as a younger girl might not have anything to judge it by.
2006-08-22 22:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cause two to one he is probably her first and that what he wants so he can brag to his friends and have you seen these 14 and 15 yrs old i know they are young but they look like grown womans and some times they lie about their ages it just a part of life but i wish these young girls would get some sense and stsy young as long as they can cause you can never go back to those percuios years
2006-08-22 22:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 15, I dated a guy that was 35, and we loved eachother. I actually saw him in a grocery store a little while ago, and he wanted to start dating again, but I had to tell him that I'm taken and dating someone else. We loved eachother, and that's why we did.
2006-08-22 22:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by Pirate_Wench 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋