How do i deal with my bf that i dont really get to see or talk to him only when he has time or his not at work.
2006-08-22 15:19:20 · 7 answers · asked by yariyadi2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
same thing i do if you really care and its really worth it wait cause i was think the same thing and i start being patient and he came around he started trying to spend more time with me.
2006-08-22 15:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by sexxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only when he has time? First and formost, this is supposed to be a couple, and you both need to put time in the relationship, i understand that people need to work and it is important, but if he isn't willing to give up other free-time activities to make an effort to hang out with you, maybe he's not worth all the stress
2006-08-22 22:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my best friend and i only talk by phone once or twice per week. we both work full time & are busy.
we see one another 4 -6 times per year.
but she is my besy friend!!! we think alike!!!
we love each other like sisters.
i had another friend who was always calling, ims, emails and i worked with her.
she nearly suffocated me!!! now we are just work friends.
i had to be hard and honest. it was way too much.
she was sweet but too demanding.
just enjoy what time that u and your b.f. have.
its not about time.
when i do talk to my bf. we talk for hours to catch up.
sounds like u need to get busy too.
try to go out to eat once in a while. just be understanding.
my bf and i have been happy for 11 years.
i tell her everything, visa versa, but we dont talk all the time ok.
ps i thought you meant best friend.
well its your boyfriend>>>> yes he needs to make time for you.
maybe his job is more important?
is it really serious?
when i was dating my hubby, he worked mon-fri but every weekend we spent together. it was something to look forward to.
he and i wrote letters and mailed throughout the week.
ive still got them in case i get mad .lol.
we are still together...24 years !!! good luck. just talk to him. be mature.
2006-08-22 22:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by grasshopper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him you need a serious talk with him that you love him but you also wants to spend time with him give him a choice either make time or find some one else good luck
2006-08-22 22:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he needs to make more time for you. This is your boyfriend, he should be spending every moment of spare time he has w/ u. If he can't, then u two aren't meant to be..Good luck!
2006-08-22 22:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by sweetthang93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm. maybe u should really spend the time really well. becoz that's his only tym. or maybe u can talk to him about it.
2006-08-22 22:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to get a real bf
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-08-22 22:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋