He does this every night and it's really troubling me.
2006-08-22 15:09:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
No you shouldn't be concerned...you should be out looking for another boyfriend who respects you and other women, and who doesn't chat or cheat.
2006-08-22 15:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by CARLA J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the beginning of a sex addiction. He may love you but an addict doesn't care about anyone else enough when caught up in their addiction. GET OUT NOW!!!! Who knows what he has been doing (and with whom) when you're not around. AIDS is a real thing and throwing your life away on a porn addict is a waste of your time and even more importantly, a huge gamble on your life.
2006-08-22 22:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by jeanhack42 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should be concerned, men with partners shouldn't have to watch that much porn to start off with, and the whole "talking with other women" issue sounds suspicious, ask him why he watches so much porn and what he talks about with other women, he can easily lie so ask the same question in different ways for a couple of days, if his answers seem off, then you should look towards getting him help, cognitive therapy should be beneficial, now you can either choose to help him if he's being unfaithful or you can simply leave him, up to you
2006-08-22 22:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by sa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not only be concerned but you should get out of the relationship now. I know you have been together for years, but trust me, if you stay with him this is going to on for the rest of your life causing pain and resentment towards him. It also takes a huge blow to you self-esteem.
2006-08-22 22:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by JenJen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will dig one deeper into distress. If and only if he expresses some concern, give him this link:
http://www.treelight.com/essays/sexuality.html
http://www.porn-free.org/non-Christian_help.htm
http://www.shelleylubben.com/testimony.html
http://www.celebritywizard.com/mormon_guide_to_overcoming_masturbation.html
http://www.peacefulmind.com/addictions.htm
If he doesn't want to hear the message, consider finding a different partner. Improve the quality of your life sooner than later.
2006-08-22 22:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because he might be chatting with old friends
if youre that concerned just ask him!
2006-08-22 22:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, get new b/f. Ever heard of Jon Benet Ramsey & the crazy man connected with her, John Karr, look up his rap sheet.
2006-08-22 22:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-08-23 05:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl whats up with u drop him like a hot potatoe theres more fish in the see no trouble just by by
2006-08-22 22:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be concerned. After all, it's troubling you.
2006-08-22 22:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by cowgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋