Im BORED of LIFE. Why cant I KILL MYSELF? EUTHANASIA?

Question

Living in Fundamentalist Christian U.S.A. I feel like I'm being forced to stay alive. Why cant I go to the Doctor and get a prescription of potassium cyanide and/or nembutol so I can die peacefully and painlessly? Why must the state force me to live and suffer? I'm 21, virgin for life, too small and ugly a guy to ever get a gf (asked 23 girls out so far with complete confidence - all turned me down), and I have nothing and life has always been one big fight. Is there anyplace I can go to on the East Coast for Euthanasia? Please help a suffering man.

Answer 1

You can't kill yourself because your desire to do so indicates that you are ill - maybe it is depression - and society wants to care for you and hopefully - if it can - make you better.

I personally don't believe doctors have a clue when it comes to mental illness - in fact they mostly don't have a clue about much at all - think about last time you were sick - did a doctor cure you, or even if you went to the doctor, was it something that just went away, eventually?

For depression, I recommend you bring your life to life - forget chasing girls, being ugly has nothing to do with it (just look at Bill Gates and Rupert Murdoch).

Find something you enjoy doing - get out in the mountains, learn to survive off the land and walk 20 miles per day - it will make you strong and confident.
Or join the Army and learn to survive the constant over-work and pain it makes you suffer (although judging by the performance of the US Army over the years, maybe they just sit around in barracks eating donuts instead of learning proper warrior skills?).

Pick up some books and teach yourself something new and interesting - become an expert at it.

One day, eventually, suddenly you will discover girls throwing themselves at you - then you will understand that you don't have to look good for girls to be interested, you just have to have money and/or power, because girls are shallow and insincere creatures.
But you can use this to your advantage - their shallowness means that $100 should buy you significant sexual services - just make sure you get a clean one who is friendly.

Answer 2

Believe me, I have tried. Suicide should work pretty good, but it's messy and you HAVE to get it right the first time. The sad part is that your beneficiaries won't get any money if you are deemed a suicide.
I've asked only 2 real doctors about euthanasia - they warned me that if you ask the wrong people you can get locked up in the mental house and given shock treatment and brain-******* drugs.
So, I've decided to be a writer and try to just live to annoy the assholes who piss me off on a daily basis.
But I'm still just waiting to die. I hear you man, I'm sorry. There are a lot of others who feel your pain.
Read some Chuck Palahniuk. It makes me feel better.

Answer 3

First of all - don't give up- there is so much time ahead of you and there's no way of knowing what will happen. Second - you're not alone! Remember that many teenagers ( including me sometimes ) feel awful. Third - well you feel you're good looking and smart - make the most of it! A really helpful tip I think is just doing things. When opportunities come up, even if your scared of them or feel you won't fit in, just go for it anyway. You never know until you try. For example, I was terrified of public speaking, felt very self-concious and out of place - but I forced myself to join the debate club anyway - and now I have something to say about myself, I feel more confident, and it turns out I had nothing at all to be afraid of - plus I made alot of new friends! Same thing applies to friends/social life - if you like someone - ask them to hang out. Just get it over with - it's the hardest part - and remember, once your hanging out if you feel you aren't very good at socializing, the other person is so likely to feel just as much pressure on them! Another thing that works for me is viewing the world from a different perspective. Instead of keeping your focus inside yourself, look at things sort of from outside your body in a way. Focus on the people around you, doing good for them, and it makes you feel better about yourself. Sometimes, if you pretend to be confident and outgoing, you actually become that. It sort of works! Because then you get used to the mannerisms of it, and it becomes almost natural. Lastly, excercise is great because it releases endorphins and makes you feel goo that way - and you'll also feel good about your body! Whenever I'm feeling upset, taking a walk outside helps me calm down and feel better. I really hope you start to feel better - remember that you're your toughest critic. Focus on your good traits and use them to your advantage - and hopefully things will look brighter.

Answer 4

You just need to learn to live without people. People are totally unreliable and useless. Think about it? Since the age of 18 when was the last time you needed anybody for anything. I'm in the same boat as you. Just take up hobbies. Mine are videogames, investing and music. Get your hobbies that take your mind off people and you will forget about people and you will be a much happier person. Also become an Athiest. Once you accept their is nothing after this life you will realize that no matter how bad life gets its better than nothing (ie being dead).

Remember: People=****.

Answer 5

I hear ya! Life can seem like one big boring fight. Have you seen the movie Groundhog Day with Bill Murray? It's true to how we can feel at times...same crap day after day. And I have an idea how you feel but you have to work on your self-esteem! There will be a woman out there who will like you for you and if not just make friends and try to be merry. You COULD commit suicide...no one is forcing you to stay alive but reconsider because I have those thoughts from time to time and am always glad I make it through alive because there is a better tomorrow from time to time. I don't live a charmed life by a long shot but I try hard to be positive. You can too! Take care.

Answer 6

Being bored is no excuse for suicide. As for ugly, I can't imagine how ugly you must be because I see ugly married people every day of the week. What's ugly got to do with anything.
Of course, life is hard--it's hard for everyone not just you. The people you think have it so easy don't. Everyone has problems and losses.
Instead of feeling sorry for yourself why don't you do something useful that would get you involved with other people. Volunteer. If you don't want to work with people there are plenty of animal groups that need workers. Not only that, but your fellow workers would get to know you as a real person. This would go a long way to making you look less needy when you go to ask a girl out on a date (which I think is your real problem--not ugly).
If you spend your time thinking of others you'll have less time to dwell on yourself. This, in itself, would immediately make you more popular.

Answer 7

Oh sweetie...don't think about dying. Murder is murder in the eyes of the Lord. Take some time to read some books on gaining confidence (How to win friends and influence people...is a good one) and be patient. Life is a journey...not a destination. Half the fun is getting there!!! And, feel free to email me if you need any more advice. Good Luck!

Answer 8

It sounds to me like you're living in a unfriendly part of the world surrounded by a lot of shallow girls. There are parts of the world where people don't reject you by the way you look or the way you act. I would suggest staying alive and moving to a more liberal city or town. If you're at the point of suiside, things can only get better. Please think this over.

Answer 9

you need help ASAP Being a virgin and no love life is no reason to chop yourself. Get a grip on the depression. There a millions of terminally ill kids and young people and people in their prime that would swap places with you any day.

Answer 10

You think you got it bad. I'm 55 and still single. Been rejected more times than I can remember. But there is more to life than just getting a girlfriend. Believe me, girls are not worth killing yourself over. If that was the case, I would have killed myself a long time ago.