ok heres the issue..iam 17 and me and my boyfriend are having a baby. well thats not the problem the problem is that he is always busy with soccer and he's trying to get into a good collage so he can help support the baby and me and we barely even talk and if we do we get into little dumb arguments that turn into a big deal..yeahh i just want to be able to get along more with him and some how spend time with him i really dont know what to do i mean were happy that were having a baby thats not the problem ..its just trying to be able to see him more idk how to talk to him really and the baby is due this saturday the 26th if ya wanted to know..well please give me any advice i need it!..and thanks!..
2006-08-22 15:00:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Since your baby is due this weekend, I think part of the problem is you are just plain tired and anxious. After the baby, there is a thing called post-partum, and you probably will be bitchy then (I was).
You are both young and right now his priority is to get ahead to support you and the baby. All that takes time.
Have a healthy baby and a good life.
2006-08-22 15:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi, i am pregnant too and due in the next week or so. baby already dropped.
anyways, you might just be going thru hormonal changes (mood swings) like one day you might want to be all loving with him and the next day, you dont want him to touch you. trust me..this one is true...i am going thru it now for at least 3 months. its horrible.
hopefully after you have the baby, everything will go back to normal with your hormones (not everyone gets post partum depression) and you can resume a somewhat normal if not busy life with dad and baby.
be patient and remember to just relax...you need to worry about you and baby right now... good luck...wishing you a quick and easy delivery...and dont forget to get an epidural..(where they numb you in your back and you dont feel a thing! its great!)
2006-08-22 15:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by sylonthego 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is real big on soccer he wanted to go pro and everyhthing. He realized that the baby and I were his life now and soccer he just plays whenever now
2006-08-25 16:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by Cassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, now "Get married"
Or at least make sure he signs the birth certificate you will need that in about 3 years.
2006-08-26 07:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by Gone Rogue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal we all do it, just take sat and sunday out to be ur days with him, spend time with him go do fun things, and good luck on the new baby
2006-08-23 01:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋