l am dating a woman 16 years older than l am we are both asexuals,some of the first words she ever said to me was l hate sex. lt was Love at first sight. After all my other dates were desperate nymphomaniacs that never worked out. l finally found someone who really makes me feel happy and complete. So what is so important about sex?
2006-08-22 14:52:09 · 19 answers · asked by catsclaw 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHEN you find the one you truly love then you realize sex is NOT as important as you think. with your soul mate the love of your life. being together is all you need. JUST imagine your partner could NEVER have sex again. would you leave them. because if you answered yes then you are NOT with your true love.
2006-08-22 15:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oooh. This is a tough one. I'm going to tell you what I think, but you may not like it.
Love has two sides. There's saying it, and there's showing it. Saying it is self-explanatory. Showing it can come in many forms, like giving her flowers or rubbing her back when she's tense. Sex also falls into this category.
Love isn't complete without both sides being in play, and sex is a form of intimacy that is very necessary for a successful relationship. It's an intimacy that's much more than simple pleasure.
I think, honestly, that you've either had a really bad experience or a really bad example set for you somewhere down the line. I think you might benefit from talking to someone about this and exploring the real reasons why you're so dead-set against it. There may be some issues there that you need to work out. (And that's not condemnation or derision from me - I think most people need therapy for something or another!)
Until you can figure out why you're so freaked out about this, I'm afraid that you'll always be missing a vital part of your romantic relationships.
Best of luck to you!
2006-08-22 15:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by *huge sigh* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 10:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by pachter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i guess it's nothing like pleasing the one u really love. Everyone has there needs i guess. But if u and the women are fine with not having sex than good for yall. Just have a non sexual relationship.
2006-08-22 14:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because it's addictive especially when u get the right person and it feels stupendous... if u never have sex then ur not missing out on anything cause u have no idea what it is and how it feels..
it's life.. for some people it's not that important.. it's only important to me when i feel the need to ***....
2006-08-22 14:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can be a joining of two souls. It's something you do with the one you love and no other, it's a bonding between the couple. That and it feels great!
2006-08-22 14:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depend son the person sounds like you found your match. Everyone has their own priorities. What is important to some may not be important to others.
2006-08-22 14:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by LJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To some people it is really important. It just doesn't happen to be with you. Just like in other individuals, tennis, for example, may be really important. And they can't date someone who doesn't like tennis as much as they.
2006-08-22 14:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is important im 31 was dating 40 yr old woman for 7 months she used to get mad at me b/c i wanted it soooo much..but then again she used to get insecure about me lookin elsewere and tell me sex was very importanat in relationship..im still confused bout the same thought...
2006-08-22 14:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by NYmasonman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You guys seem like a match made in heaven.
Experiment with different things and explore your non sexuality with her.
2006-08-22 14:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋