ok so i have this problem. ive liked a lot of boys in the past. sometimes when theyre bf worthy, ill go out with them. but i never actually love them,i mean im only 15. ill like them as way more than a friend but ive never called it love. but now im in love. liek actually in love i never was before and now i am. but i dont know if the other boy likes me. and also, this boy has cancer. hes gonna be fine he just ended treatment and hes doing great and i talk to him all the time. but there are a few problems: 1) one of my best friends used to rly like him not in love, but just rly liked him but he didnt feel the same way(but he was so sweet about it! hes such a sweetie pie!), but she says shes over him and has been with another guy since that, but i dno how she'll react. 2) im scared that he might still be recovering from the chemo 3) i have a bf. i rly like him as more than a friend but the thing is that im not in love with him, im in love with the other boy.so what should i do?
2006-08-22 14:50:56 · 19 answers · asked by cicibaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do people like you even open your mouth? do what you feel like....you know none of us are going to convince you to do what we think! so deal with it! get a backbone and tough it out!
2006-08-22 14:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by hannahrosey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen chick, you're only 15. The last thing that should be on your mind is "love". You say you have a boyfriend but you like another guy with cancer. Well cancer shouldnt be an issue at all. But hey you shouldnt get too attached to him because he might die. You say you like this guy more than a friend. If you like him more than your boyfriend you should end it with your boyfriend, that is if you're not really feelin your bf anymore. You should find out if this guy likes you or not. Cause if he doesnt theres no need to waste your time, ya know. But like i said kid, Love is the last thing you need to be worrying about.
Toni
2006-08-22 21:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Talk to the best friend about it, if she says she's cool with it (and means it) then you are one step closer.
2. It doesnt matter that he is recovering from chemo, if you love him like you say you do it wouldn't matter either way.
3. If your in love with another guy do not string the current boyfriend along, it's rude and will give you a bad reputation.
2006-08-22 21:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by ala_chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.You're only 15
2. It's not really love, more like infatuation
3. You have a friend you really like (not the same guy) and aren't sure what to do. You need to slow down and stop trying to find someone to love.
When the time is right love will find you so don't worry and stop trying to figure it out. Just be patient.
2006-08-22 21:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by DramaQueen26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 15? Tests prove that the human brain in women does not fully mature until the age of 25. If i were you I'd just back off, take a break and wait.
2006-08-22 21:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that you have the hots for the other boy you like and you're just not feeling it with your current boyfriend. Then, when you've finished ripping out his bleeding heart, go tell the cancer boy how much he means to you. Then consider marriage.
And don't ever talk to your current boyfriend again, ever. Guys hate that. Have some decency after you rip out his insides.
2006-08-22 21:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You should tell your boyfriend that you are in love with someone else.
2) You should tell this new boy that you are in love with him.
3) You should not worry about what your friend will think.
4) That's plenty to be gong on with.
2006-08-22 21:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to school make good grades get a scholarship and if he still around and in love maybe you could marry him. But for now stay in school and don't be alone with him. Boys that young don't love.
2006-08-22 21:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by LJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first don`t be in a big hurry to start dating,try to be friends and hang out together,just have a good time.having a real boy friend can make life a problem.if you fall in love with a guy and he desn`t like you and leaves you you will feel bad.
2006-08-22 22:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that you should go out with the guy that you love not like but love. I dont think she should care if you go out with the guy. because she use to like him right? so i think its fine. hopefully im right.
I kind of have the same problem.
Good luck.
2006-08-22 21:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go behind your friends backs and just ask if he likes you. If he does, then go out with him. Don't let your skanky little friends determine how your life is going to pan out. This might be the start of a lifelong relationship. If you do go out, say that he asked you out and you accepted. Your skanks will get over it, if they don't fuc* them off, they're not real friends
2006-08-22 21:54:38 · answer #11 · answered by alias_47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋