this guy i've been dating for a month went to his friends house to hang out and got a little drunk so he went to sleep and hwen i called him about an hour later this girl answered the phone and was whispering like she didn't want him to hear her and when she was talking to me she kept hanging up on me and then after the fifth time she said that she was his wife and they have two kids i tried to ask her more questions she said that she doesn't answer questions i asked her to wake him up and she said no no no i can't wake him up she was acting real calm and wierd so i called two diferent friends to tell them what happned and they said that girls lie like that to start trouble and the way she was acting she was lying to me to make me mad.......which later on i found out that it was a lie and she has done that before.....how can i stop her.......why do girls lie so bad like that?......over a guy?
2006-08-22 14:41:14 · 11 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They lie because they want the guy and are willing to be unethical to get him. Ignore her. Focus on him. If he is mature, he will be drawn to your confidence and unwillingness to play games. If he's a punk, he will try to egg on the drama to boost his ego.
2006-08-22 14:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by getoffmyusername 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she was at the same house when you called while he was sleeping he's probably seeing her too or likes him and she is jealous. That or she is a complete nut.
There is nothing you can do to make her stop, but you could ask the guy what's up with the situation. Are you exclusive or free to date other people? Find out what the deal is from him and go from there. Good luck
2006-08-22 21:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll do that because they aren't happy with their own lives. So why should you be happy? You can't stop anyone from doing what they want to do, the only thing you can do is make them think about it before they do something like that again. Which isn't hard to do. You confront her in front of others. She'll be totally embarrasssed and that will make her wonder what the reaction of the next girl will be, when she pulls that one again.
2006-08-22 21:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the ratio of so many men to one woman.
Some women pull out all the stops.
Some are insecure...alot of them are.
I'd blame the guy.
Why would a female be aswering your manfriends phone n e way. He's suspect.
2006-08-22 21:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they sound like to me they are not grown up or mature...but girls do all kinds of silly things....i use to myself but i have since grown up.. i never was one to lie though...it does not sound like she is much to worry about anyway....
2006-08-22 21:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the lie about? That is unclear.
2006-08-22 21:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by TheSkeptic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes him
2006-08-22 21:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they want what they cant have
2006-08-22 21:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you cant stop her
2006-08-22 21:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dats true she wants wat u hav n she no she can't hav him cause he's ur's
2006-08-22 21:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋