my boyfriend and i fight aalll the time, even over the stupidest things.....every single day we seem to fight over one thing or another....buut we love eachother sooo much and wont break up with eachother, cuz sometimes he's really sweet and we get along great...but the fights are starting to bother me, especially sense it's just about everyday, im getting sick of them!....i suggested we take a break but he gets really sad when i mention that, and i dont wanna take a break either...i just want the fighting to stop...what can we do!?????
2006-08-22 14:32:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will have to stick to your guns...I think the best thing would be to take a break...let him act like a baby and 'get sad'...he needs to grow up as you probably do to. Take some time out for both of you mature and if it's meant to be you will get together again. It's not worth having a relationship if your going to be fighting every single day. Good Luck
2006-08-22 14:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...it takes two people to fight. I suppose neither of you are willing to back down, but let's work on you changing and see if that brings about a change in him.
Learn to let it go...is it really important for you to be right all the time? That is a sign of immaturity. If it isn't important, say what you want to say about it, and say it only once, and say it with a calm voice. Don't roll your eyes, or stamp or tap your feet. If you love this person, then you need to exercise a little decorum.
2006-08-22 21:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love? Girl, I don't think you know what it means. Is it really love or are you just fond of having sex with him? Seriously.
I once had a hard time letting go of an EX because I was afraid I wouldn't get laid anymore. Boy, was I wrong. I even had much better, more, and with deserving girls afterwards!
My point, COOL OFF for a while, and try to figure things out.
2006-08-22 21:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by Tony BEE Good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what tension is in the air something is wrong and you 'll need to set down and have a one on one talk get whatever that is bothering you both out and on the table and don't leave no stone unturn and may be the truth will come out good luck
2006-08-22 21:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop putting off the inevitable...break up already.Neither of you are going to change.Whatever attracted you to each other in the first place is not enough to keep the relationship going.
2006-08-22 21:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by batsey99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fight dont argue with him dont do nothing when he starts to fight give him a big kiss and tell him how much you love him
2006-08-22 21:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by LUCKYGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is that when he starts, remain calm. don't do anything. just keep looking at him.try and put on a neutral expression on your face. when you do these, he'll be confused. he'll just have to correct himself.
2006-08-22 21:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by jydes03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dosent sound like u two are getting along and he sounds abusive and controlling get out find someone eles.
2006-08-22 21:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by blueducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋