relationship and a 5yr old and 1yr old by him.we talked about getting married 2 yrs ago and when the time came i felt like he wasn't ready so i told him i wasn't ready to marry him. well 4 months after that he married someone else. after being married to her for 2months he decides that he don't want her so he comes back to me i take him back he gets seperated then i got pregnant. I tell him that he has to make up his mind. he says he want to marry me now but when i want to talk about setting a date he gets mad and says i am rushing him . is it right for me to give him an ultimatum to marry me within the next 6 months or i am moving on? he is divorced now but wasn't when i got pregnant what should i do?
2006-08-22 14:28:18 · 5 answers · asked by nurse2011 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't take this as an insult, but you have to excercise some responsibility when you have sex. And nowhere in your question do I hear any of your concern for your children. I think you have spent your time being selfish, and it's time to think of your children's welfare. Where in this situation do they benefit?
Your boyfriend has responsibilities to your children too. Where is his concern in this?
Now is the time to make decision bases solely on what's best for them. Your bf seems like a flake, but who cares. You need someone who is stable and who will help provide for your children. You're past the point of being allowed to marry solely for love since you have so many children.
2006-08-22 14:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u have to rush him due to u r pregnant. U're stomach will show out any time, let him know that u dont want to wear a wedding gown with a big stomach.
Ask him not to give u any tension when u r pregnant , its not good for baby u know.
If u still love him n if he is really love with u ,u SHOULD NOT think of living him.
just sit down n ask him why he is so mad about married, it must have any problem????????
2006-08-22 14:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he have to make up his mind??? Its your life!!! Don't let his crappy and sad decission making screw up your life. Find your knight and shining armor on a white horse because this guy is doing nothing but dragging you down....and another thing...if you have to ask..You already know you want to chuck him..you just want permission to do it from someone else so its not your fault. GO LIVE YOUR LIFE!! WITHOUT HIM!!
2006-08-22 14:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt want to get married leave him
2006-08-22 14:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOLT SH!T GIRL!! get on the f'n PILL!!!!
and leave him.
2006-08-22 14:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋