I have always felt really jealous and bad when ever my girlfriend hung out with other guys and had a good time. Just a few minutes go I was on the phone and she was on the computer IMing and she told me how one of my friends was being funny and she was excited to be in his class. I know that she likes me more then the other guys and thats why we go out but I don't know how to make the jealousy feeling go away. Any help?
2006-08-22 14:20:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To the second poster I do have a life and it just does bother me a little. I don't know why but your post wasn't something thats constructive.
2006-08-22 14:24:10 · update #1
I'm not insecure I know that she loves me and likes me as her boyfriend its just weird
2006-08-22 14:27:44 · update #2
My boyfriend had to grow out of the same problem. You just have to except the fact that you girl is gonna hang out and chat with other guys. Yes I know, easier siad than done. But you can do it! You trust her right? She loves you right? Then go with that. And to help the feeling pass, hang out with some of your own friends. Or do something that you like to do.
2006-08-22 14:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by crystle d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to ask a similar question... I don't know why jealousy and insecurity creep into good stable people's minds.... My hubby is good and faithful but I've been cheated on in the past. My Dad cheated on my Mom. I don't know... we just have issues.
2006-08-22 21:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has moments of jealousy...but we do have to keep the green eyed monster under control....why do you get jealous? are you insecure? do you trust her? does she do things to make you jealous or is it a past problem with someone else that has reared its head into this relationship. first you have to know where the jealousy stems from,then when you know the reason you can work on fixing it.
2006-08-22 21:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly*effect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummmmmm, you are insecure, from what u wrote u are so insecure... if you feelin jealous that shes having a better time with other guys maybe you should think about takin her somewhere n giving her a good time ( i dont mean this in any sexual way) take her somewhere that she likes, perhaps u should let her choose the place
2006-08-22 21:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by geigerjanelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is like you. That´s why I stopped talking to him about other guys and I love him so, I don´t tell him anything that would sound like if other guys are better than him Your girlfriend should do the same thing. Why don´t you tell her what bothers you, so she can stop doing it.
2006-08-22 21:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by None. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get yourself a life, before getting a girlfriend. You have "little man syndrom" and insecurity is a turn-off.
2006-08-22 21:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be very strong with women. I don't know your relationship or how "steady" you've agreed to be with her, and she with you. If the two of you have agreed, then you need to talk to her about it. If not, then I think you need to back off and go out with some other girls, or else concentrate on building your life if you're really young.
2006-08-22 21:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just hang out with her
two:Brake up with her
three:Do what you feel in ur heart
I fell that about my boyfriend but i just keep it to myself and control it which i'm always piss at him but still
2006-08-22 21:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea,hang out with others girls and start to talk to them and it will turn around for you,you might even find out that she isn`t the only one around.
2006-08-22 21:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself! she must love you for who you are, because obviously she calls YOU her boyfriend, and not her other guy friends.
you are someone really special to her. keep it that way
2006-08-22 21:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋