I have been nursing my girlfriend back to health after a serious car accident. I have been to every doctors appointment with her. I have used my money to pay her bills while trying to get the insurance company to pay her. This past Saturday I thought we were going to be together when she stops at my home and says I only have an hour my friend needs me and she is at a all male baseball player party. I started a low key fight with her which escalated into a big fight with her pushing me twice and I hurt my back. We have not really seen each other since and tonight I broke it off because she will not recipocate my love and attention. I spent hours massasing her back from the accident and she always mean to me. I told her never to ****** call me again. I do love her but how do I stand my ground and not call her. I just want to see what I mean to her. If I don't mean anything she won't come after me. She has been taking alot of pain meds. Please help me not to call her no more
2006-08-22 14:13:41 · 6 answers · asked by Al L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel for you buddy.....it's time to move on.
2006-08-22 14:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like u might've been taken advantage of.. but were u doing all those things to get attn so that she would owe u, cause if u were then u set urself up for that one.. u should want her to luv u even if u couldn't massage her back and pay her md bills...
but i think u should hold ur ground.. if u meant anything to her and if u mean anything to her now then she'll call.. but if she doesn't then u need to take it for what it is and move on.. u sound like u deserve better..
but u starting the argument on the day she was going out was wrong.. u should've done that when u both had the time and a place to do it..
2006-08-22 21:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is sit back and see if she comes to you. It sounds like she was just using you through the recovery and now that she is better she don't need you. Try finding someone else to call, or email and take your mind off her..
2006-08-22 21:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are as nice as what you have said here, I am surprised she can't see it.
People like you will always attract ladies, so don't worry, whoever meets such a thoughtful guy will be very LUCKY.
2006-08-22 21:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move her phone number from your phone numbers or on your phone
2006-08-22 21:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by pooniekk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life not always fair
2006-08-22 21:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kai 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋