2006-08-22 14:08:22 · 20 answers · asked by Dimples 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd sit there like a dead stump and expect him to contact you, it's completely nutz that you could actually be expected to bring something to the relationship yourself, because, after all, your one and only task in life is to sit there and look pretty, giving guys a target to pour all of there work into. Just sit right there. Maybe he's getting tired of dating a corpse who takes and takes and waits for him to do everything.
2006-08-22 14:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by gimli_1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say call him one time and once only. If he doesn't answer, leave him a message. Leave a real brief message without sounding irritated, like; "Hey baby, I was wondering how you were doing. Just calling to see if you're ok, call me when you can." Then leave it alone. If week two rolls around without a word from him, well, actions speak louder than words. Men are very LITERAL beings, if he likes you, he'll call, if he's not interested, he won't. It's not like the two of you are still in the "getting to know you" phase, because you say he's your boyfriend. Therefore, he should be more forthcoming (notice I said "should") about his feelings because after all he decided to commit to you.
2006-08-22 14:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by succulent_diva_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend who was like that, he didn't call and I always called him. Eventually, I stopped calling him then he instant messaged me and asked why I didn't call. He told me to call him, he kept telling me he loved me but whatever. I started calling him again, he called me one or two times, then it went back to square one. I just stop calling him. I just left him alone. I don't even bother with that. I found another boyfriend. He tries his best to keep in contact with me.
2006-08-22 14:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to do is don't think the worst.. School is starting and he probably has a lot of stuff happening all at once.
That done, and you are calm, it is important to be calm, or your voice will be shrill, and you will sound like a fishwife, give him a call. Say something in the line of "What's up, I haven't heard from you in a coon's age, so I am checking to see if you are still alive."
Good luck sweetie.
2006-08-22 14:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Matilda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's been in an accident and is unable to call, he isn't much of a boyfriend. It sounds like he's giving you the brush off.
He's an M.I.A. (missing in action). And remember, actions speak louder than words.
2006-08-22 14:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him leave a message and if he calls you back then ask him whats up with him not calling - if he doesn't call you back then move on sweetie.
Good luck and god bless!
2006-08-22 14:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st Don't call him your bf and if you don't want to call him then don't and if you do then go ahead and talk to him and if he still doesn't call you dump him there better guys out there. Hope he understands Best of LUck~
2006-08-22 14:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by Alexia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him find out why he haven't called. if he gives you no explanation or don't know the tell him that you need some time apart to see if it is meant to be.don't call him let him call you!
2006-08-22 14:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by nurse2011 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say he has some issues of some sort. it depends how long you have been going out with him and if he usually calls you alot. read more on dating and relationships that might help on this site
2006-08-22 14:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
id call a hospital
2006-08-22 14:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋