i cut my arms ever day because im gothic and my band whats me to live school what should i do and i smoke should i stop!
2006-08-22 14:02:19 · 18 answers · asked by Goth_Satan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jessica,
Please stop this behavior. Harming yourself is a cry for help. Please find someone to talk to. Seriously. You must remember that most of life's problems can be solved.
DO NOT quit school. You will regret that decision for the rest of your life.
I am a smoker but I do advise you to quit. It'a nasty habit.
2006-08-23 12:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bugsy Groucho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your Gothic isn't really a good reason for self harm.
Ask your self. Should I really leave school just so I can be in a band. In the long run what will happen if the band doesn't make it, what will you do the, spend your time dreaming about what could have been or spend you time following your passion. The only way to figure out what your passion is and to make it a reality is to learn.
And yes you should stop smoking those cancer sticks.
2006-08-22 21:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...being goth doesn't mean you have to cut your arms...I have friends that claim to be goth and they don't do anything like that. Yes..you shouldn't be smoking think of all the health problems you are going to have in the future. And as for this band...what are they? a bunch of f*cking idiots? Why would you quit school just because someone else wants you to? Do you want to go around the rest of your life telling everyone (including potential employers) that you quit school because "your band" wanted you to? Don't be stupid...at least finish school that way you can get a somewhat decent job and people aren't going to have to support you with their hard earned tax dollars.
2006-08-22 21:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, I'm so sorry you're in so much pain.
My honest advice is to get help. Whether it's talking to a therapist (nobody has to know!) or going into a program (also, nobody has to know), you need to talk to someone before you truly hurt yourself.
It sounds like you have some really great friends that truly love you. Don't be afraid to lean on them a little bit.
And yes, you should quit smoking. :)
2006-08-22 21:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by *huge sigh* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what can i say you should definitely seek some counseling or talk to someone that you love and or trust . you also might want to try and stop listening to your friends . i don't really know what else to say but i hope you take this advice and pray really hard and if your not into religion maybe you should try it . God is the key to all in this life and without him we are more than lost we gone with no chance or returning unless we surrender and call out his name . good luck i wish you the best and you will be in my prayers .God Bless! p.s smoking can kill not only you but all those whom you spend you most cherished moments with think about that.
2006-08-22 21:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious with this question or just delusional stop cutting yourslef stay in school stop smoking and loose the band. find a hobby that is not threating your life. and if your posting this just to get attention i feel sorry for you.
2006-08-22 21:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by heather d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your parents or a counselor about this, your body wants respect and if you take proper care of it, he will take the proper care of you in the future....
If you have a band they must want the best for you, not things that will hurt you and keep you from having a nice future (don't rush things, if you are good, you will succeed)...
2006-08-23 11:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by BrAd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually u cut your armas for attention, u should talk to your parents more often. No dont quit school education is more important than u think. always follow your heart not your friends.
be a leader not a follower.
2006-08-22 21:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by heycanwedoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you butcher your arms the same way as you butcher the English language, you are in serious trouble. But what the heck, if this is Gods way of thinning the herd, then go for it.
2006-08-22 21:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop cutting yourself just cause your goth doesn't mean you ahve to do that. now your friends aren't really your friends if their trying to get you to liave school so get new ones and the whole smoking thing well give it up. your young don't mess up your life.you can do so much better just believe.
2006-08-22 21:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by c0nsuel0_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋