i've been told that the guy i like, likes me back. but not with real proof. my friends just think its obvious becuase we flirt and stuff. (see my previous question). so rumor has it this guy likes me. NOW WHAT?! i dont want to just tell him i like him. but hes a shy guy and he hasnt told me he likes me yet. is it cool to tell him i like him, or what? ajksdkla help!
2006-08-22 14:00:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if hes shy, take control of the situation. If hes not gunna publicly tell you, then you tell him. Believe me I would love my crush to approach and talk to me, i know im too shy to try it myself.
2006-08-22 14:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely he probally does, just tell him how u feel I was in the same sitation with my currsnt boyfriend before we hooked up , everyone kept saying we like each other, so I asked him if I could talk to him and he said yes so I just told him that I liked him the next day he asked me to be his girlfriend, just tell the guy and he will come around if not ask him out there is nothing wrong with a girl making the first move
hope that helps
good luck
2006-08-22 14:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm interior a similar concern at present. each in certain situations i choose i could purely scream and be like, "do not u ever DO something?" lol. in any case, u favor to be the single to search for advice from with him. u favor to be the single suggesting activities to do with him, because he received't. believe me. till the day he feels completely comfortable with u, he will in no way ask u to flow out. u favor to take value and "be the guy" contained in the courting. commence off through chatting with him. ask him something and each little thing. if u finally end up bored stiff including his shyness, i advise shifting on, cuz this is likely he received't replace. good success :)
2016-12-01 00:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u make the move and tell him how u feel and ask him out, then he will probably be happy and flattered........i'd like nothing more than a girl to ask me out cuz im shy too, and it would save me torturing my nerves. gimme 10 if u like my answer
2006-08-22 14:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old you two are... There is really not much you can do.. Talk to him.. but if he is still shy about it....well what are you going to do.. force him to ask you out? Only thing you can do.. is ask him out yourself.. but.. he might be to shy to say yes.. GOOD LUCK with that one.....!
2006-08-22 14:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by ..Luna.. *.. ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if he's shy, you will have to be the one to do the asking.
If you don't, he won't, and nothing will happen.
What's the worst that can happen if you ask him out, he'll say no thanks, and that will be that.
You might be embarrassed, but it's his loss not yours, and at least you will know the truth.
2006-08-22 14:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. And for heaven's sake don't stalk the guy...it always turns out bad. (I know too many people that have tried that.)
2006-08-22 14:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill with him on a friendly level to see where his head is at and then let him know that you like him but be gentle
2006-08-22 14:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by KAren h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, that's the only way you'll know for sure. Everything else will be stipulated and hearsay.
2006-08-22 14:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ya just gotta tell him you like him or else rummors will be talking about it for a year
2006-08-22 14:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by pooniekk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋