i just broke up with the person that i loved the most, she was so unfair to me & had hurt me so badly such that i decided never to trust a woman or love 1 for that matter. so now i date more than 1 girl (to avoid disappointments). but there is dis girl (5 years younger than me) whom i now start to develope feelings 4. should i be unfair and cheat on her to avoid heartache and headache like before or should i give a faithful relationship a try?
2006-08-22 13:49:03 · 12 answers · asked by flyleg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That one girl might have been the worst person in the world to you but that doesn't mean that this one is going too. I mean yes people do get hurt (I have had my fair share) but that is part of, that is part of findign that one person that you will love and will love you for the rest of your life. give it a chance and if it doesn't work out, yeah you'll be hurt, but like everyone else, you'll get over it and find someone else and you never know she might be the one!
2006-08-22 13:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give a faithful relationship a try, but I still reccommend communicating with her constantly and being honest with each other. I don't know how a relationship can survive without that. besides, if you cheat, then you'll be no better than your ex gf and you might make this new girl feel the same way you do right now. Revenge is not worth it man, move on
2006-08-22 20:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kiwi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be faithful. Imagine if she was the right girl for you and truely loved you and because of your fears of heartache you were unfaithul to her. How do you think she'd feel after that? The same way you felt? Do you really want to cause her that much pain? Take the chance. Not everything works out perfectly, but if we don't take chances, we'll never find the things that DO work out perfectly.
2006-08-22 20:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do two wrongs EVER make a RIGHT? Karma's a *****, kid. You find one good one in your entire life, you KEEP IT! Don't you think for one red SECOND that cheating on an innocent will redeem your silly ***. As if you deserve it. ****. You're DAMN straight you should give a faithful relationship a try. It's a gift from God. Don't waste it.
2006-08-22 20:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the.... you almost made Sleek curse.
Listen to you letting your pain and fear dictate
how you spend your life. Should you be UNFAIR?
Only if you're striving to be a bu##w!p3 in life.
Of course you should try to do it right, don't
play games with people, man. You will reap what
you sow. You attract what you are. Please stick
with faithfulness or you continue to live through
and with and on the level of the girl who hurt you.
And she doesn't deserve that much energy from you.
2006-08-22 20:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this you learned something form the breakup and then remember it. Then go on try again Don't cheat she may get as hurt as you got
Quite living in the past and start a new
2006-08-22 20:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by aaricka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont cheat on her if you have feeling for her just dont do it because if she finds out about the others than she'll be in the position that you were
2006-08-22 20:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥♥DY_lover♥♥~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody deserves a second chance/don't punish everybody for one's mistake
2006-08-22 20:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by geckog1212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest plz!
to cheat os sb is no right
2006-08-22 20:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by kingdom511 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
commit ur self to who shows the most commitment :)
2006-08-22 20:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋