im 23 and never been in a relationship... i dont know wuts wrong with me.. im a straight guy ... but im super shy when in comes to ladies... help! wut should i do? maybe because i grew up in a boys only school?
2006-08-22 13:48:45 · 25 answers · asked by evertroland 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are fine. Just be who you are!
2006-08-22 13:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. Your time will come. The shy business can work for you or against you though. Some girls like shy reserved guys where others would like a guy to make the first move. Try going out and practicing. (I know it sounds silly) For example, a female cashier, flirt a bit and see where things go. If nothing really interests you then hey, at least you got the first step down. If it makes you feel any better...I am 22 and only had 2 relationships none of which were very serious. Good luck
2006-08-22 13:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by missyb5884 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is telling you you're ok and you're not ok.
I'll lay it out for you.
You're shy, which makes you miss out on alot of oppurtinities for a relationship. But that doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. Just talk to a girl you take interest in; you can show your interest and be shy. Eventually a girl may come around that likes how shy you are, and trys to talk to you anyhow. But the problem is, alot of girls may have taken interest in you, but your shyness was mistaken for a lack of interest in them
There is nothing wrong with never being in a relationship. There's nothing wrong with you. By growing up in a boy only school, you most likely never had the relationship breeding place like the rest of us did, highschool.
I personnaly suggest you figure out what type of girl you want.
Think where you would meet such a girl. (Example, if you want a smarter girl try a book store, ect.)
Then go there, and watch for one that catches your eye. You can be shy but you MUST show interest. A little conversation can go a long way, offer cofee, ect. If someone knows they have your interest, and you have theirs, a date will ensue.
Relax, follow what I said, and enjoy the dating world.
2006-08-22 14:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with you.. There is not a special age or a correct age to be in a relationship. Everything will come with time. You are still very young and before you know it...you will find that special someone. Try to be a little more outgoing and surround yourself with different people and friends.. Don't feel like you are running out of time..because you will get desperate and end up in a wrong relationship...Just enjoy life .... Good Luck!
2006-08-22 13:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by ..Luna.. *.. ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing's wrong with you! Some guys are just like that! In fact, you have an advantage here, some women like men that are shy because those men don't tend to flirt with other women. That's the way I am and why I like the guy I like! If you are interested in finding a first time girlfriend, you might want to try the park, the bar, the library, or even your local Starbucks. If you need any other advice in the future, please feel free to email me at advice4u180@yahoo.com Good luck!!!
2006-08-22 14:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may desire to ask a chum who's often used with you and can be elementary with you. that may not adequate documents to analize what's happening. That jogs my memory of that action picture "a thank you to lose a guy in 10 dates". i know the main effective the clarification why i may be shewed off. a million. your grotesque as hell 2.your annoying 3. you have some extreme subjects 4. you're thoroughly uninteresting 5. needy and grasping Now i'm picky and a few men are no longer so their standards are plenty decrease. 23 years wow! i assumed i replaced into in a drought! I even have pals (bless their hearts) that would desire to take you out in basic terms as a protracted-shot of having lsid...and woould cope with you like a queen at the same time as doing it
2016-09-29 13:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually In my opinion it isn't a bad thing at all, I wish I could find a guy that hasn't been with everyone and their momma lol
so I don't find it weird at all, I find it actually as an attractive aspect in guys!
I'm super shy too (hints the name) all my friends have been in my relationships then I have and all my exes have been in more then I have too and I personally hate that, I prefer a guy thats not that experience in the whole relationship area, because I'm not that experienced in that area, you know?
sheesh I'm 17 and only been in 3 relationships... and I think thats why its hard for me to find a guy is because I'm shy and what not, but hang in there!
god bless!
- Autumn
2006-08-22 14:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, there's nothing wrong with you at all. I know lots of people your age who have never been in a relationship. I think that the best way to get over your shyness towards the opposite sex would be to begin by makings friends with females (ones that you are NOT attracted to). This will help to give you confidence when trying to approach girls that you are really interested in. When you approach women, be yourself. Say what you would say, not what you think sounds cool. Good luck!
2006-08-22 13:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by Amazon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The right person has not come into your life yet. Keep all options open, don't go by looks alone. Develop your own interests, explore new ones, and expand your friend base whenever possible. If you become an interesting person, you will have more to say when meeting new people.
2006-08-22 13:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by abracadabragal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reality check...
ur straight?
then think why ure super shy with girls, do u have any insecurites?some bad xperience with the opposite sex?what makes u freak out in their presence?
u cant find a gf if deep inside u ur holding back to something. try to get over ur shyness and be assertive and dvlop ur persnality coz girls lyk men with an attitude.
be a tough guy but sensible in a way that makes u lovable.
anyway girls are not hard to please just be ur self and be true to everything that u say.
2006-08-22 13:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...you may suffer from tinyius Penius. Its a rare disease where the male glands are so small that the guy lacks the balls to ask any girl out not matter how unattractive she may be. The only cure is to ask out a fat gir and get her drunk and have sex.
After that youll have so much confidence that you'll be askig girls out left and right.
alright get out there...go get 'em and dont forget to "wrap your whopper."
2006-08-22 15:16:47 · answer #11 · answered by RockHardRyan1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋