durring the summer me and this guy made out and what not everyonce in a while but now that school has started he doesnt really talk to me or anything..i like him..but i dont think he likes me how do i ask him if he just used me all summer with out it being all awkward?
2006-08-22 13:45:28 · 15 answers · asked by blonde_ambition 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really need help
2006-08-22 13:59:50 · update #1
Don't bother. If he's not talking to you now, of course he was just using you.
2006-08-22 13:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey the only thing i can say is ask him don't kiss him b/c he might just go for it and it can mean nothing. also prepare for the fact that he may have got the wrong idea about you like your easy even though you could of been doing these things cause you really liked him. if he says nothings there then be cool about it n find urself another 2 u it can be a summer fling but to everyone else if you don't want them to get the wrong idea then say u really liked him and thought it was going to go somewhere. if not like u don't want people getting the idea ur gullible if ne 1 asks say u's just flirted and u gave him a couple of chances but he just didn't measure up to the guy you'd spend ur time with lol, so you weren't intrested and moved on. Good luck.
2006-08-22 13:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Princess M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an awkward question to ask, anyway.
But if he is ignoring you, now that school has started, then I would say, that yes, he used you.
All he was after was someone to make out with. Seems you made that easy for him.
So, it's partly your fault, although, I understand, women, are more emotional than guys. It seems you just got carried away, and were used. Hopefully, next time, you will be a lot smarter.
2006-08-22 13:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. The guy is using you because you made it too easy. Why buy a cow if you can get free milk? Get it? Men and boys want the thrill of conquering and hunting. Don't be so quick to give them what they want and you'll have them eating out of your hand. Read a biography of King Henry the 8th. You'll see what I mean. Forget whether he used you. You don't really want to know. What if he says yes? Find someone who treats you with respect.
2006-08-22 13:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by rico3151 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he made out with you and stuff so he is definetly attracted to you. But he may not want wveryone else to know that. Just ask him one day, or start talking to him, if you had just cybered with him or something then I could tell you that maybe seeing you face to face makes him embarrassed, but I think that he may have just used you, but I could be wrong, but i would just walk up to him one day and start talking and then just ask him why he never talks to you and take it from there. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-22 13:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by beachchic705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men who're immature will continually think of classes are gross. yet that does no longer recommend which you'll be embarrassed. it rather is their situation. next time it rather is swim time, do another interest and say which you're having a blast doing it and ask him to connect.
2016-09-29 13:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make out with him the next chance you get and if he pushes you away then he was just using you if he does kiss you then it is just the stress of school that makes it seem that he does not care.
2006-08-22 13:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by The original John Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry ........but if u feel u have to ask him.......u've been used.....move on..if he didn't use u seeing u with another guy will make him ask u a ? good luck
2006-08-22 13:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,,, welcome to adulthood... 101...... if you have to ask ,,, then chances are he just used you....
Best thing for you to do... go find another guy,,, and dont even look at this Bum anymore.....
good luck
2006-08-22 13:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just out and ask him! go off on him if you have to as well. :o)
2006-08-22 13:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by Andi21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋