im in love with a 22 year old man but im 12 about to be 13 wat do i do?
i want to make a move i know he likes me but he said he cares bout age wat the hell do i do now?
2006-08-22 13:43:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he most likely does not like you but if he really does then there is something wrong with him since he cannot get someone closer to his age.
2006-08-22 13:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by The original John Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I won't judge your dilemma, but that type of relationship is wrong on so many levels and I have to tell you that the man you are in love with can go to jail for statutory rape. Find someone that you trust to talk with about this. This is a serious situation. I hope in the long run you make the right decision because you are young and have so much to look forward to in life. The only thing you will gain from this type of relationship is heartache. Baby girl take your time growing up. Once you cross that line, you can not turn back.
2006-08-22 14:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by LM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about this man then leave him alone---he can get in HUGE trouble and go to jail if you pursue anything with him.
You have a long time to get into a relationship. He is old enough to have a serious relationship/get ready to start getting married and you need time to practice dating with guys your own age.
He is trying to tell you that the age difference is too great and is trying to watch his back so that he doesn't get in trouble--he is doing what is right. I know it's hard, but don't push him too far.
Good luck...take some time to get over him and then move on, hon.
2006-08-22 13:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT!!!!!! your a little girl, in case you didnt know, its illegal for a child under 18 to date someone over the age of 18, and you say your inlove, in you really love him youll leave him alone, and he should know better than to mess with a 12 year old, u say he likes u...hes a grown man...he can do way more than you, hes had way more experiance...not to burst your bubble or anything but hes way too old for you. and if anything did happen between you two. and someone found out hed go to jail, and if u love him u wouldnt make any kinda move
2006-08-22 15:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by geigerjanelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah against the law here! wait till ur 16. he'll wait for you if he really likes you! my friend is 14 and shes pregnant from a 22 year old i would watch out!
2006-08-22 13:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl, what are you thinking? Your 12, he will go to jail. You should not be thinking about him. He is going to do things to you, that you don't want trust me. If he was 15 or 16 or 17 maybe, please don't go for him. It's not right... I don't care really, but your family will. Please don't cause to tell you the truth, your gonna get pregnant or hurt. Use your brain girl!
2006-08-22 13:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by prettyartisichuskey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but you ae 12, what you feel is not love, it is lust and you are flattered that an older man is interested in you. If you get involved with this man he will be in big trouble!!!!!!!
2006-08-22 13:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down be a girl and don't grow up to fast , cus once you cross that line of being a grown up theres no going back , live your life as it should be don't skip being young
2006-08-22 13:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ps:don't make a move that will make you regret for the rest of your life cos if you do,deep in your conscience you'll always think you're a sore thumb
2006-08-22 14:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by ♥MIMI♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, that's against the law and he could go to jail.
2006-08-22 13:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by chi chi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋