My bf and I have been going through this dilema for about the past week. Where he wants to move to NC at first he said he wanted me to go, but not right when he went because he didnt want to wait two months for me to go because of job, bills, etc related things. There is no reason for him to go so soon, NONE. He could wait for me, he just said he didnt want to. Then after an argument a day later he turned to me in the car and said he wanted me to go with him because he would miss me way to much and that he loves me. Last night he was talking about moving to a smaller apartment for now, and I thought it was because we could save more money to go together, then I find out today, its so he can get his deposit for the apartment to take with him. Now hes saying he never wanted me to go at all, telling me he only said he wanted me to go so I wouldnt b%^ch at him before going. He seems to switch to me not wanting to go when we argue, when we are fine again, he wants me to go. Wtf is going on?
2006-08-22 13:39:06 · 7 answers · asked by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know if he's confused, angry, or what. I said I would move with him if he gave me a little time, and that's cause he asked me to go. I have a job, bills, and the apartment and our stuff to take care of first, we live together too. There is no reason he has to go that soon, NONE. He could wait for me if he wanted to.
But if it comes down to it and he goes, I'm not going to tell him no or anything. If he loves me the way he says, he won't do these things to me. He won't leave me like that. And if he does, then I just don't know what to say. I won't go later like that, because there will be no later.
2006-08-22 13:41:36 · update #1
He is an a**hole that's whats going on! You don't need his crap. If he was planning on pursuing your relationship he would make his plans around both of your lives not just his.
2006-08-22 13:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by marla m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds easy. Let him go now. And then you never go. Sounds like an awful, manipulative person which you should be happy to be breaking ties with. If what he's saying is a lie, then you can't trust him. If what he's saying is true, then he lied to you after the fight and you can't trust him.
2006-08-22 13:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Qwyrx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could placed it in writing just to be sure. Have it notarized and get copies. supply him 30 days from the date you supply him the papers. If he would not flow out after that then call the police and clarify the area. besides the shown fact that if he does act on his temper and you experience threatened you would be waiting to call the police at that factor and get him out.
2016-11-05 10:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it sounds like he's just playing a little kid game. if he doesnt want u to go, dont go. act like you dont care and natural. He'll come around and know he really misses you,
2006-08-22 13:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by tim80903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this guy is one a girl can't trust !
he is changeable, i want to ask do you have some sex ties with him , because i think he wants your body to intercourse with, not your mind ,so let him go alone ,the result will turn up soon !
do you agree?
2006-08-22 13:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by kingdom511 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the old game of mind *******. He is messing with you. Let him move on his own and see what happens.
2006-08-22 13:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. you don't need to be treated with such confusion.. just tell him staight up.. do you really want me to go with you or you just saying that you want me to go with you so that i won't be bitc****to you.. that way you can determine if you shouldstill stay with him
2006-08-22 13:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋