can u help me?

Question

i have to live with my mother at least 4 month.i m newcomer to us .i dont have work permit ,and i dont have a job ,i hadnt seen her 8 years ,and i had forgotten my very abusive chillhood because her.i temporary need her financial aid until i sell my home and i pay her money back ,she make me nerves all the time and when i dont talk to him during the time she shout on me ,she think im relax and she say why r u relax ,im not relax im just in fight with myself at that moment .i explain to her she shout more and she doesnt understand ,i found she doesnt love me at all ,not for that reason ,i found she has absoloutly no feeling about me , im mother too and i understand what should be the love ,how should i deal to my mom?

Answer 1

Give up all material attachment, as much as possible, to mitigate fear and anxiety.

Be transcendental. Stay absorbed in prayer and study.

Do not show lust, anger or greed. Push these away in your mind like pushing away cats and dogs.

It is very difficult for parents sometimes. Don't believe her shouting or display of anger.

Stay safe.

Answer 2

ALL mothers have things about them that are hard to deal with. I understand the fincial part. IT is hard these days for everyone. ALthough there are good homeless shelters that can really help you get on your feet. Your mother is only making oyur life hard and that is not right. America is to be a symbol of freedom and peace and happiness. Look at your mom and tell her you love her then walk out. You can do it...

Answer 3

First of all, you need to learn English. If you are here illegally, you need to leave. Then, you should worry about your mother, but she sounds like a real *****. Comprende?

Answer 4

you need Jesus in your life thats the only thing that can help. holla at me if you interested. [e-mail]

Answer 5

Accept it. Love her anyway.