my brother will be a juior next this year and he is very active in soccer and my mom and him allways talk about is soccer and i am left out of the convorsation but i do not like talking about sports how should i deal with this
2006-08-22 13:33:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What I really suggest is talk about it. Trust me, I am no physchologist, but I know that the key to solving a problem is to talk about it. You should tell your mother how you feel, and that you are always feeling left out. You can also talk with your brother, too.
Now, I know that you will receive some answers, such as "learn more about sports," or something, but you don't have to. Tell them how you feel, and you'll feel better about yourself and your problems will be solved.
2006-08-22 13:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit back and let your mother and brother talk about soccer for a little bit. After talk about something that you wanna talk about and involve everyone. A mother and son talk is good. I really feel for you,but dont do anything rational. Make sure your coversations come up at a time thats suitable.
2006-08-22 21:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your mom to have some one on one girl time with you to do things that you both enjoy as far away from a soccer field as you can be.
2006-08-22 20:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by joandi_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have the chance ask your mom to help you with things even if you don't need her help. One thing is if you take home ec. in school to ask her to help with some project your working on.Get her started talking about when she was a little girl and things she liked to do.
2006-08-22 20:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would find an interest with you mom just like your mom has an interest with your brother and maybe you could talk to her about how you feel wen your left out it always works especially since shes your mother
2006-08-22 20:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mother when your brother goes to football practice, does your brother feel left out when you and your mother talk about girly things, i have girls and boys and they were football mad , my daughter was the best goalkeeper in the school, the boys were very proud of her, and she is very girly, and not a tomboy. regards LF
2006-08-22 20:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by lefang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a q that doen't have anything to do with soccer. but always be supportive to ur brother.
2006-08-22 20:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking about something you like. if this doesn't work talk to your mom about how you feel about it. sometimes parents don't realize what they are doing.
2006-08-22 20:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by SAChicky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well usually i dont know cause i know how that feels but once try telling your mom how you feel it could be better
2006-08-22 20:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by chinora m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an interest that you and your mum can talk about that he doesnt like, such as cooking.
2006-08-22 20:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋