I have been with this guy for 7 yrs. well i needed to spread my wings on having a job.Well we recently have been geting back on the same page again and everything is toooooo perfect.Meaning as if we just met perfect.Hes being tooo nice.I don't mind it tho. But when he goes out he tells little lies for some reason. Expecially about whom he is around or either just trys to blow it off so i wont ask anymore.Like he avoids anything i might wana ask.He hangs out with this one guy he supposively doesent even like?cant figure that out but he still goes out with him.in the 7yrs we have been together he has never gone out to just play pool. NEVER.Now he does.uses his friend as a excuse to go out which is fine.he always talks sh#t about him and still wants to hang with him???? I don't understand. when i ask him who he played pool or hung out with he avoids even saying anything. Like hes hiding something??? He says he has no friends when he goes out too he just plays with whos there? truth?
2006-08-22 13:06:40 · 16 answers · asked by hellokitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
girl,omgaww,,,i have been there and made myself believe he was tellin the truth,NOT!! it sounds like your guy has a girl on the side.MAN 7years is a long time,i went out and followed my guy and found out what really was goin on...dam it hurt like hell.i seen him w/ the girl..please dont keep pushin this 2 the side.he will just keep doin it!! NAIL HIS BALLS 2 DA WALL GIRL!!! dont let him keep bullshiting u. WE GIRLS R BETTER THEN THAT.well good luck w/ whatever u do..and remember what doesn't break u only makes u stronger
2006-08-22 13:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 00:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by pecinovsky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but he's cheating on you. He's being "tooo nice" as you say out of guilt and to make you think that everything is just peachy. I think deep down inside of you, you know he's seeing someone else, all of the things you say in your question indicate that. You need to move on before you waste any more of your precious time on this guy. I know, I was with a guy for 8 years, everything indicated he was cheating on me, even though he was telling me he loved me and was being nice. I even gave him an easy out, but he chose to stay with me while cheating with his skanky ho (I can say that, I knew her for a long time before I got with my boyfriend, and she knew we were together). One day I found a credit card receipt with her name on it with his stuff, that was the very end of our relationship, and I'm so glad because about 8 months later she had a baby by him, to think I might have not found out and been with him when she gave birth, I think I would have been even more heart-broken. Too bad I didn't dump his sorry as* sooner, don't let another year go by while you are wasting your time with this guy, start your life anew.
2006-08-22 13:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is using this guy as an excuse to see another girl.. I would follow him one night, and see where he goes and with who. I bet he has a girl on the side, and that is why the strange behavior... RED FLAGS going off here!!!!
2006-08-22 13:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's with a girl, or doing drugs. Had that happen to me. For on of the guys, he was with a girl, For the other one, drugs. He lied about the drugs because he knew I hated them. Found out anyway because of how he was acting.
2006-08-22 13:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by gin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's lying to you or hiding things he doesn't really love you. Sorry, not matter what he says or does actions speaks louder than words and his are saying he is using you. Move on and find someone who is worthy of you.
2006-08-22 13:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by Courtne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it might just be he cheating and doent want you to know. He loves you but he wants you both if its the case. Just talk to him. If he really loves you like you do he will understand. And maybe stop. IF he doesnt, he sould be telling the truth and just be two-faced
2006-08-22 13:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kim p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be suspicious of any partner who was reluctant to talk to me in detail about his social life. It's a sign he doesn't trust you, and probably won't, because he doesn't want to. This guy is trouble.
2006-08-22 13:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have listened to his friends. He is happy with the sex, when he can not get it else where. that's why he doesn't tell anyone about you. Your a good lay, not one to have your friends meet.
Spread your wings, find someone who wants you for who you are, not the sex.
2006-08-22 13:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a dead-end street to me.
2006-08-22 13:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋