im planning to leave a note in my friend's car about how i will miss her when she go back for college. and i want to tell her that she's the most beautiful person i've ever met.. i want to say this in person but since i felt this dpecial feeling for her i tried acting weird in front of her and mess up all the words i want to say.. so my question is would that be improper if i just leaveher a not?? imma guy
2006-08-22 13:02:18 · 36 answers · asked by evertroland 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*leave her a note*... ( last phrase was messed up)
2006-08-22 13:03:32 · update #1
*leave her a note*... ( last phrase was messed up)
2006-08-22 13:03:34 · update #2
I think it's sweet. You could leave her a note in her car with a flower. And then slip a note into her luggage. Send her one at the dorms (or where she's going to live). Make it like a theme.
2006-08-22 13:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by raquel122203 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a note is fine and sweet. It could be a little awkward if you told her in person. What if she didn't feel the same, then it would be awkward for her too. A note is sweet all around and gives you time to carefully plan your words and her as well whether she feels the same or not. Good luck, i think a rose is a nice touch. I hope everything works out.
2006-08-22 13:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by hklcrazy4him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you will make more of an impression if you tell her directly. The body language says a lot. In all honesty if you mess up the words it won't matter as much as how you are saying them. It is a proven fact that when you say something body language says so much more than what you are saying. So, before she leaves, take her aside and tell her what you want to say. Just before you get to this point though I would suggest writing it down and practicing telling her (as if giving a speech in school or something). I know it may sound silly, but it will build your confidence. Good luck.
2006-08-22 13:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by missyb5884 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you have feelings beyond friendship for her. If that's the case, I don't really recommend a letter unless you REALLY can't muster up the courage to tell her face-to-face. However, if you just want to leave her a note to tell her how you'll miss her, how special a friend she is to you, wishing her the best, etc., then that would be fine. I wouldn't label it "improper" either way, though.
2006-08-22 13:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mess up all the words in front of her, give her the note in person, and stand in front of her until she's done reading it. You should tell her why you're writing her a note too, because thats the way you feel about her.
2006-08-22 13:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by softball_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leaving her a note is fine and she will probably think it's sweet. If she feels the same about you I'm sure she'll contact you. It would be better if you told her in person, maybe over dinner or something, but if you are afraid you will make a fool of yourself a note will work just fine.
2006-08-22 13:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think leaving a note would be sweet surprise, especially since when she opens the door there it is. Creative idea, I must admit. Maybe you could just leave a note that says "i need to talk to you. love *your name*" and then after she reads it, walk up to her car window and tell her everything you need to. Don't be nervous. She'll respect you tons more if you say what you need to say to her face-to-face. Good Luck.
p.s. Leaving a fresh flower with the note is another awesome idea. Just a thought. =)
2006-08-22 13:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely leave the note, but then go try again to tell her in person. It's important for you to be able to voice your feelings to people without bein ashamed. The problem most women have with men is because women feel men are insensitive, when actually men are sensitive, they just have a hard tim expressin it. If you can practice while you're young (I assume you're still in college as well) you will be better able as you get older to share your feelings openly.
2006-08-22 13:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by strong_beautifulqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, but it would mean a lot more if you told her in person. I know it is a lot harder to talk to someone like that in person but she will take it alot more seriously. Notes can be interpreted incorrectly and she may get the wrong impression. If you tell her face to face she will know in her heart that you really mean what you say and you are not just being a jerk. Good luck!! I hope things go well for you!!
2006-08-22 13:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to leave a note that would be ok. If you want to add a special touch and have access to the inside of her car...leave the note on the drivers seat with a rose on top.
2006-08-22 13:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Courtne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋