I like this guy that worked in another dept. at a company I used to work at. I think I already hinted that I was interested but a part of me doesn't think he got the hint and a part of me thinks he does. So how can I convey to him that I am interested without making it seem like I'm telling him twice if in fact I did (htat's an if by the way)...
2006-08-22 12:53:15 · 9 answers · asked by Name Unknown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plus there's a risk he's not interested and I may have hinted at my interest in the past...but a part of me thinks I didn't ...so I wanan tell him without risking humiliation or annoying him if I indeed asked him twice.
2006-08-22 12:57:51 · update #1
A nice innocent way could be to give him a call and see if he wants to do lunch or a coffee etc. It's not really a come-on and if it were me, I'd see it as innocent and appreciate the invite.
2006-08-22 12:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a guy, and you wouldn't believe how dense I am.
I would have really appreciated it (before I got married) if those girls who were interested in me had just cut through my fear by walking up and saying, "Hey, are you ever going to ask me out?"
But then, I don't like to beat around the bush about anything, either.
2006-08-22 19:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lokishadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in a socially setting, offhandedly bring it up. " You know I mentioned this before, but wasn't sure if you really heard me." Better to ask and be sure than to assume, be wrong and miss an opportunity.
2006-08-22 19:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by limgrn_maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys, if they are interested (and single) will do something. You are obviously still in contact with him, so if he wants you he can easily hook up with you. Find someone new.
2006-08-22 20:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u see him run and jump on him like u aint seen him in a while (hug him) and then flirt with him as in ( when u gonna take me out in that truck or car of urs)
2006-08-22 19:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by scarlett_bytch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be bold and ask him out . guys like being pampered and given importance
2006-08-22 19:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by DEAR T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go after him..... guys are sooo dumb half of the time..
Ask him out..... to dinner.
"O" Wise One.... would like to be asked out to dinner.
2006-08-22 19:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be blunt about it. or wait and see if he makes a move and is interested!
2006-08-22 19:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you can a lunch date. Email him...
2006-08-22 19:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋