im a virgin but i dont want to be. im gonna use a condome but what age should i lose it? and how exactly do i ask a girl if they whant to have sex?
2006-08-22 12:50:57 · 23 answers · asked by Dean- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing wrong in being a virgin. it's acctually nice that sex is not the only thing that u care about.
don't push it. when u meet the right girl, it's all gonna fall into place. once u get a girlfriend and u know each other enough, the topic will come up and u can discuss it how both of u feel about it. don't pressure her into doing it, but alson don't feel pressured into doing it if u feel that u r not ready. after all ur first time comes only once.
2006-08-22 12:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Unicorn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to be a virgin because all of your friends are not virgins? Or is it just because your curious? That is really up to you when you want to lose your virginity, and it's best if you wait until you are with someone for a long time, and that way that day can be a special day for you, and the other person, that's only if your the type that wants to make it a night to remember.
And that way when you are with that one person for a long time you both can talk about when the time is right, for the both of you to have sex.
2006-08-22 20:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by GREEN EYES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should first ask your age as you sound very young, but by the very nature of your question, I know that you are not ready to have sex.
Having sex is not just something that one decides to do like deciding to have a hamburger or something. It is the culmination of emotional, psychological, physical, mental stimulation and attraction towards someone.
I would first worry about being the best person I could be and learning what love truly means. Then you could work on meeting a woman that you would want to spend time with. Do not pick her merely on looks, but on intelligence, and on how well we would connect emotionally and spiritually.
When you have matured as a human and know how to receive and give love and affection and empathy towards your mate, THEN you may be ready to experience the next level of a mature relationship -- sex.
I would suggest that you consult some good books or a counselor to learn about maturing and being an adult.
2006-08-22 20:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're a male virgin doesn't make you any less manly. You may not want to stay a virgin, but believe me, girls respect guys who are virgins because there are not that many out in this world. Keep your virginity, it is such a special gift. I never realized it until I lost it. Now I wish I had saved it for when I find the person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with. There is no greater feeling than making love to someone that you truly, deeply, passionately care about. Trust me.
2006-08-22 19:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a time and a place for everything. The age that I suggest virginity to be lost is at the age of maturity. when you are old enough to understand and be responsible for you actions. Sex is an adult act, so you should wait at least until the age of 18.
2006-08-22 19:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough question first of all it's no shame to be a virgin you should wait until the right girl comes along there's no special age as to when you lose your virginity some boy's and girls wait until they either get married or are in love just don't say anything to your male friends because they would tease you like crazy and it's none of their business when the time comes you will find the right words
2006-08-22 19:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by papasmurf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask a girl! When the moment feels right, just start making out with her and then keep going futher and further but don't go too fast. Whatever age you feel like it.
2006-08-22 19:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by Star_Zero 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should lose it when you're ready. There's no set age to lose your virginity. When you find a girl and love her....it'll all fall into place. And it's good you're planning to be safe.
2006-08-22 19:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by celticangel72986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey baby listen hear if it happens it happens but always be prepared and go for wild and loud girls ask the girl simple questions about her sex life an see what happens from there but hey you re a virgin its OK more power to you
2006-08-22 19:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by maudhaitian2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you see all these women responding to your question. i think they all agree that theres nothing wrong with being a virgin. i think you should wait until you find that someone you wanna dedicate your life to. but if you do decide to get cha freak on use a c.o.n.d.o.m. always wrap it up. theres a lot of nasty azz people out there. and the last thing you wanna do is catch some disease!!
2006-08-22 19:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋