alright i know this might sound pathetic and trust me i am beating myself up ffor it enought,so pls dont give me any sarcastic answers.I probly know all the answers myself already but still i guess its human nature to hope,so..here is the short story...me and my x had 6 year difference,we were togheter for 2 years..everyone sais that he is way matured for his age ,i was the only not seeing it,i didnt know how much i loved him till i lost him,i still cant get him out of my mind.He was my best friend and a lover.I havent talked to him for a year now,but the pain is still there and it doesnt lessen.I want out of this hell but i dont know how. I even tryed dating ...taht ended pritty quickly, couse the emptyness in me just kept growing.
what should i do?how can i stop this suffering?
oh,also he hates me now and i know that he wont even talk to me ,or care to see me. I am traped in the same circle and i keep falling,what do you think i should do?
PS i appreciate all genuine answer
2006-08-22 12:50:28 · 5 answers · asked by SunSet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try some counseling, it might help you get over him. Good Luck
2006-08-22 12:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sunset, the first thing you have to do is stop berating yourself. Trust me, thats not going to get you anywhere in life and it corrodes ones soul. You need to come to the realization that its over, and nothing is going to change that, ok?. If you can't get this guy out of you're head, then maybe you need some counseling. You wasted a year torturing yourself, and for what? Get out and start enjoying you're life again. Believe me when I say this, life is WAYYYYYY to short for this kind of crap.
2006-08-22 19:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to terms with it. Cry it out. Go find someone to help. It will get you involved with others and give you other things to think about.........or maybe not think at all.
What is done is done. forgive yourself and just try to learn from it.
You can't undo the past, only learn from it.
2006-08-22 19:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that if u really love him go after him and don't stop until u get him. if he loved u back and what u guys had was genuine he would really listen. plus he probably have feelings for u to and is trying to teach u a lesson and would take u back.
2006-08-22 19:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny Lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what did you do to make him hate you??
call him. ask him to meet with you. tell him you really want to see him. he may actually want to if you try again. and tell him he can invite anyone he wants just to make it more comfortable.
if he says no then maybe you should see a counsler or someone like that to help you for get about him.
good luck
2006-08-22 19:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋