My friends very jealouse and she asked the guy i liked out for her self and he said YES!!!!! I`m so upset what should I do help!!!!!!!!
( This happened after she asked this ugly guy out for me and I don`t even like him but I didn`t want to hurt his fellings so I had to say yes!!! HELP!!!!!
2006-08-22 12:46:48 · 34 answers · asked by sportygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm sry....but thats just wrong. my friend "was attempting to do that if i didn't talk to a guy" ...but she didn't yet......geeez say that ur hurt and it was no reason for her to go and do that.....u didn't do anything wrong (as far as i know)....good luck! i'm on ur side!! hehe.
2006-08-22 12:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These kind of people need a good lesson. Now if she's dating him there is nothing you can do. Moreover try to show her you are not upset and show her that you are not jealous. This will make her less content about the fact any maybe she will find someone else. You can also be your self in a way that this guy likes you more than her. But, be yourself, don't let him realize what is happening.
You might also find a guy you like more and when this happens do not do the same. I wouldn't trust such a friend anymore.
And if nothing happens, well, give up but speak with your friend and tell her how you feel... if she's a good friend, something good will come up ! ;) good luck
2006-08-22 12:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never make the same mistakes, move with a change of pace.
Don't say yes to a guy just because you don't want to hurt him. Personally, you did just that when you said yes, and if he finds out the hard way (i.e. you not telling him but finds out from others) it makes it worst and could leave a scar. Why did she ask him out? Most girl let us guys do that.
Walk in the path of righteousness.
2006-08-22 12:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by WWJD: What Would Joker Do? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She isn't a friend, friends don't do that. She is jealous of you, and, if I were you, I would dump her. Find a true friend.
There is nothing you can do about the guy. She asked him out, and he said yes. So at least he likes her enough to go out with her.
If you had been the first to ask, he may have said yes to you too.
So if you see someone you like, go for it. She who hesitates is lost.
2006-08-22 12:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your "best friend" has some security issues. Perhaps spending time with other friends or finding other things to do might give this person pause for reflection. If this were my friend that's how I would handle it, having a confrontation probably wouldn't work and worse you could look like an absolute fool.
2006-08-22 12:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't lead the guy on. I'm sure this wouldn't be the first time he's been rejected and it won't be the last. Second, find a new friends cuz she's not a very good one.
2006-08-22 12:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by renee1724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you definitely have to go to the friend first. Because if you want to salvage this friendship you guys have to communicate. The worst thing that could happen is for you guys to just completely stop talking and let tension build up. Let her know how wrong what she did really is. And if she did it on purpose, you have to wonder if she really deserves your friendship. As a friend she should be happy for you and support you. I f she can't handle that you may have to re-evaluate your friendship.
2006-08-22 12:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by Matthew 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if she knew you liked him she would have let you have him first. she doesnt sound like the best friend. and asking another guy out for you that you dont like. well you could break up with the guy you are with. it sounds like this "friend" set you up. asked out a guy for you knowing ud say yes out of pity and then you couldnt ask the guy you really like so then she could make her move.
be gentle with the guy you are with now. if you break up with him it would be better to tell him the truth but if you tihnk he is too sensitive to hear that then tell him that you dont like him like u did before.
good luck!
oh yeah. and drop that so called friend that has totally set you up!
2006-08-22 12:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your best friend then I would hate to meet your enemy! You need to evaluate what you want from a friend and worry about the guys later. There will always be guys to date but a true friend is priceless.
2006-08-22 12:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by karenmay57 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a horrible friend. Tell the guy you don't want to go out with him. It's better now than after you go out. And find a friend who won't play stupid games with you.
2006-08-22 12:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's not a real friend. If I were you, I'd let her read the answers you get. You won't have to say a word. What she did was wrong. She upset you - her "FRIEND" on purpose. That is NOT a friend. She knows what she's doing......believe me.
2006-08-22 12:49:43 · answer #11 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋